A Man Should Be Or How We Choose A "bolt" Instead Of A Man

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Man has long ceased to be a living being. A person is a set of functions that must work properly and provide support for the functions of the family, society, and the state

If we are looking for functions, then we are also looked for as functions. They do not see a person in us, because we do not see people in people. How do I understand that I treat people as objects? How to recognize your attitude towards a man, like a bedside table, wardrobe, iPhone?

I ponder and observe these states and the consumer society. My observations and reflections.

Checking myself: A MAN FOR ME IS AN OBJECT, if

• "He must" - be smart, tall, rich, Jewish, "fried in sour cream", speak French … without scars and scratches (a set of functions that should be in it)
• He must - pamper me, love me, think about me, talk to me, spend all his time … - a set of actions and feelings that he must perform and evoke by default, for this I "bought" him.
• He must know my DR, eye color, habits, desires. I do not have to know his "microcircuits". I bought a good robot, it has all the necessary functions and information about me. enough.
• I chose him. he agrees. I told him what to do, he does. He has no right not to choose me. I give him the meaning of life and existence. he serves me.
• When it deteriorates and ceases to perform its functions or please me, I will throw it away and replace it with a new one. They don't have the right to throw me out, change me, replace me. The owner's bedside table does not choose.
• I do not conduct dialogues, relationships, I do not seek understanding from him. the car does not ask, does not cry and does not ask for an explanation.
• I turned it on - it works. I turned it off, he stands silent and does not shine. He lives when I want-let-call.
• He has no right to refuse me. I do what I want with him.
• I cannot interfere with him, annoy, anger, annoy him. But he can do it for me.
• I know exactly what he needs, where, when, why and how many times. I have instructions for use. I communicate with him like this: "sit down to eat", wipe your nose, call when you arrive, I know what is best for you, do only this way, listen to what they say to you, do not ask unnecessary questions, guess yourself, everything is clear by default.
• He has no right to change his settings and habits, which I have already learned. I have the right to change everything, always, and for any reason in my life.
• Man is a function. I see what functions are there and use them. I decide who to take into my life and how to use it. of course looking for a station wagon.

• For this person, I have allocated a place in my space. put it there and there it stands. Move, flicker, violate boundaries, change, rebel, refuse or agree, harm, demand DO NOT DARE !.

  You are the car I need.

I'm using you.

Be happy with my attention and the choice of you.

I gave my word and don't dare change your mind or be unreliable.

Promise-fulfill. You love - so for centuries.

He is my mirror.

I see only myself in him. it is not and never was. and in general there is no one in this world. everything is an illusion.

There is me and God.

I am steel - these are my mirrors and projections. items and functions.

I communicate only from the position - adjustment from above. I am the master, he is the subordinate. I have a right, he is not.

I don't fit in, I don't fit in. I call specialists, let them fix it. I am leading to a psychologist - teach him to be a real man. I lead to the hairdresser - make a man out of him. I am leading to my mother, showing whom I have chosen for the function of "husband".

If functions are not added, I change it to another.

The easiest way to change this is to say, “everything.. you don’t inspire me anymore, you don’t stick around, I don’t want you, now the fashion is different, you’re a super object, but alas.. everything…” And most often I won’t even explain, I’ll throw it out and I will replace it silently.

"program, Valley.. program" …

We use each other, my dears.

Man-to-man - function, chance, option and method.

In principle, not a bad option. functions are also necessary and convenient. Otherwise, the state and relations must be radically changed. BUT! if we confessed to ourselves that we are using each other, we would be kinder and more grateful to those whom we use and to those who use us.

And we have no gratitude, no awareness, no respect. We do not know how to use each other properly, but we shout about philanthropy and individuality.

Come learn to see people. Learn to live with them. Come discover yourself.

Vilata Voznesenskaya

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