2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Almost every adult and emotionally mature man wants to see a woman next to him. For various reasons, men lack the emotionality that women have, the female energy gives a man a kind of recharge and is an implicit factor that largely influences the relationship between a man and a woman. But at the same time, men do not strive for relationships with women who demonstrate certain qualities and patterns of behavior that can either be unpleasant for a man or cause him to misunderstand.
No man wants to see a rival in a woman. He doesn't want a relationship that resembles sparring in a boxing ring. Therefore, women with a pronounced position, a lady seeking victories in everything in the world, and who consider themselves strong and capable of playing male social roles, a mature man will bypass. When a woman tries to be the same as a man, strong, responsible, strong-willed, making all decisions on her own, then it can often look ridiculous, since it contradicts the very nature of a woman. Especially when it comes to relationships. Such women are sought after by men who are accustomed to being infantile and unable to take responsibility for themselves. A grown man is unlikely to obey unconditionally.
Some women, over time, and under the influence of various circumstances, acquire a certain pattern of behavior, which can be conventionally called a “complainant”. This is a woman who, often, without even realizing it, broadcasts her resentment to others around the world. Such a woman, being in the position of a victim, convinces everyone around that the world is unfair to her, and she urgently needs to be saved. And the deliverer, in her opinion, should be a man. And such men really are, but they often turn out to be only manipulators who, while doing something supposedly for a woman, have as their goal simply to gain power over her, with all the ensuing consequences. A man who does not have problems with self-esteem does not seek to become a savior, because he views the relationship as a dialogue between two adults and adequate people.
There is a category of women whose habit is rooted in the desire to criticize everything and everyone. These ladies persistently convince everyone around that they know exactly how it should be. At the same time, in most cases, they do not hide their constant dissatisfaction with everything that is happening around, starting with politics and ending with issues of medicine and raising children. Such women sincerely believe that a passive struggle for justice is a worthy and necessary occupation. Such women in their social media feeds have many posts condemning and calling for global change. But in reality, they are not able to somehow influence what they criticize. Such ladies resemble women commissars, but not in leather jackets, but in dressing gowns. Men are by nature more realistic and will not waste energy on previously unsuccessful actions, therefore, they treat such women with misunderstanding and often avoid building relationships with them. With such a position of behavior, a woman can show what is a priority for her in the interests of life,
as well as internal dissatisfaction with oneself. Not every man wants to see a home-grown opposition representative next to him.
Grown men strive to see a soft and tender woman next to them, one who radiates happiness in itself. Such women do not need salvation and they do not need a man as crutches. This is the inner state of harmony of a woman, which men feel very well and they will strive for such a woman in order to make her even happier and become happy next to her. And this is about love.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.
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