Message To Myself 18 Years Old, Or What I Will Tell My Daughter

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Video: #DearMe | a letter to my younger self 2024, May
Message To Myself 18 Years Old, Or What I Will Tell My Daughter
Message To Myself 18 Years Old, Or What I Will Tell My Daughter
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Never put up with anything. People need to know what triggers their behavior in you if they want to be around. Especially men. And you yourself often think about the motives of your actions.

They will leave you, you will leave, it will be sad, but remember all these are natural life processes. With someone you will walk a life-long path, with someone for a couple of years, a month, maybe days.

There is such a concept of growth. You will grow from pain as well as from happiness. Growth from pain will sometimes be unbearable, but remember, this is temporary and will end. And after going through the pain, you will thank her and the one who presented it to you.

Remember there is no good or bad, and perhaps I will teach you to erase duality. Everything that happens in life is neutral, and we ourselves attribute the plus or minus sign to events. Those who do not take responsibility for their lives will convince you otherwise.

Never listen to other people's judgments about yourself. Don't let others decide who you are. Take away from them the right to decide what is best for you, what is yours and what is not, what is necessary for you and what is not. Don't even give it to me, and neither do dad.

Remember you are always beautiful, with any of your manifestations. Always let all your feelings be: pain, sorrow, joy, happiness. Live feelings and emotions, express them, but remember that there will be those who will not like it.

You don't owe anyone anything, and no one owes you anything. There is either a desire to give and do for another, or not. And me and dad, you don't owe anything either, someday you will do the same for your children.

Remember you are beautiful and sexy, this is your energy, so take care of it, spend it on yourself, on your goals and dreams. A man will come, there will be many different men, and each of them will want to rip off a piece of your energy for their own purposes, be vigilant, and carefully choose who you want to give your energy to. The exchange can only be equal, which means he must also make his contribution to you.

Your man is the one with whom you often smile, with whom you enjoy most of the time. And remember, in order for both to be happy, both must do something for this.

Forgive yourself always and for everything!

To be loved - just be yourself. The words adapt, please, please, make him happy - cross them out of your vocabulary. The one who really loves you will not remake you. Go away from the rest and don't waste your time. Your time is your resource and the opportunity to be happy longer.

Until a man receives the "main course" he will be very inventive, he will say what you want to hear from him, and even he will believe in it, but you do not believe, look only at real actions.

He said that he loves, see how much time you spend together and whether you feel happy at this time.

He said he wants a family, look how long it will take you to be with him in the registry office and whether you have to remind him of his promise.

And of course, watch how he behaves when you are sick, when you swear, and whether he keeps his promises.

Finally, trust yourself, your feelings and your intuition. Listen to them more often.

Start from the very beginning as many times as you need. Everything is temporary and passing, so do not worry about anything for a long time!

You can use my experience or not, it's up to you. You will always have your own experience and it may be different, and you have every right to it!

Author: Darzhina Irina Mikhailovna

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