2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Maxim does not eat shrimp. As, however, any seafood. He says that this is "disgusting" and that those who call them sea creeps are right.
Andrey Sanych refuses to discuss various issues with Mary Ivanna. He claims that he knows for sure that she is a fool and wrong.
Maxim is my 11-year-old son. Andrey Sanych is my 35-year-old colleague.
But they don't seem all that different.
And Andrey Sanych's behavior as a professional, as a coach, as a business coach of one of the companies, has more serious consequences.
Andrey Sanych at his sessions, trainings and programs generously shares his views, thoughts, beliefs. Well, how? There is no other way at the training. The coach and trainer first of all presents himself to the public. With all of the above, which still shines through in every phrase, in every gesture. This pattern is called).
So, when Andrey Sanych perceives the world one-sidedly and considers his vision and perception to be the only correct one, and then builds it all into the minds of clients and students, then soon all the students and clients of such a specialist begin to perceive the world also narrowly and one-sidedly and through some At that time, they also firmly believe that Mary Ivanna was a fool and not right.
I, of course, give an example in a very detached and exaggerated way. But it is vital.
And this state of affairs strongly undermines many postulates of life, many principles of building and maintaining relationships, and even simple human ethics.
I'm not even talking about professionalism.
And further.
Maxim and San Sanych “suffer” from the same disease - arrogance. In his understanding, that they believe that their individual experience determines reality.
After all, what does an arrogant person think?
“I see things as they are. Therefore, if someone thinks differently, he is wrong."
Andrey Sanych calls Mary Ivanna a fool because Mary Ivanna simply sees the world differently.
As a victim of a disease called “arrogance,” Andrei Sanych believes that he is the only one who has the key to the truth. He believes that his thoughts, judgments, opinions and beliefs reflect the "very" truth and truth, and not just just "his personal" truth. That is, a certain piece of the whole Truth and Truth.
Where does all this come from? And how to treat those who are sick?
And we remember again Practical Psychology course.
Jean Piaget, a renowned cognitive psychologist, conducted a terrific experiment. With kids.
He gave the child a half red and half green cube and let the child play with it. Then he sat down opposite the child, holding the cube in his hand, and asked "What color do you see?" The child answered correctly: “Green”. The next question was: "What color do you think I see?"
Children from 4 to 5 years old immediately answered: “Green”.
BUT! The most interesting!
Jean Piaget found that children between the ages of 6 and 8 already have the cognitive ability to distinguish between their perception and the perception of another person.
As a result, what do we have today?
Lots of 5-year-olds with cognitive abilities by age and a lot of life experiences. Some have a 30-year-old, like our hero Andrey Sanych, and some have 40-50 behind them.
That's how we live)
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