2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The development of the personality of some girls was accompanied by observations of women who were not theirs, for example, neighbors, distant relatives or popular stars, whose lives were in stark contrast to those of their mother and family in general. Some of these girls dreamed of one day to heal, as these women live: easy, carefree, interesting, rich, etc. Some did not even dare to dream like that.
The girls grew up and their lives began to resemble the lives of those women whom they eagerly followed in childhood. They feel that life is good. Or almost succeeded. However, sometimes, thoughts appear out of nowhere that a fatal disease will be discovered, the husband will begin to abuse alcohol, and the children will become criminals or drug addicts. In such cases, I practice vocalizing such thoughts in detail. I say, based on my feelings, something like: “Look, how it is starred. It's not for long. Your turn will come and shed tears "," Wait, wait, you have little to rejoice "," You think you caught God by the beard, a little more and everything will go back to normal. " In this way, I bring the "Bourgeois Witch" out of the Shadow. This envious balabolka with a tongue without bones, who calls into question the duration of a woman's happy life.
So there is an acquaintance with that shadow part of a woman who is not realized and is able to spoil, if not life, then the mood for sure. Further work always demonstrates the presence of an envious component in the structure of a woman's personality, which was formed in childhood. The woman seems to be jealous of herself, since her life did not go according to the scenario: she should have married a poor drinking man, work hard, just like her mother, her children should have been failures and losers. But in real life, everything is not so: her husband, a respected person who loves her, she has an easy, but at the same time to her liking, work, children love to learn. There is a kind of micro dissociation, in some part the woman continues to be that girl who is not doing well, who feels admiration and admiration for a successful movie star, but who causes envy and whose illness or death will sadden and delight at the same time.
Often, such a psychic complex of a "bourgeoisie" forms a society that insists that everything has to be paid for. This idiom continues to operate within the woman, poisoning and darkening life. A woman might say something like, “Yes, I don't seem to deserve all of this. I didn’t earn money for my car, I don’t pay for my expensive education”. “You have to pay for everything,” says a philistine voice; then there is a fear that you will have to pay with health, children or beloved animals.
A petty, avaricious bourgeois woman who promises that trouble will surely happen to a woman is easier to find than to pacify. It takes desire, commitment and time.
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