A Man Is The Strongest In This World

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

The man's task is to make the world of women and children safe for life. Physical, mental and financial safety is important for a woman. A man is the most powerful in this world. The strong take care of the weak. By creating a safe world, doing good, they awaken feelings of love and gratitude in a woman. A woman can then create at her own level. Only in the safety of women and children can the potential given by nature be revealed. Nothing attracts a woman to a man more than how, step by step and with care, he creates a world in which she is safe. It becomes a great value for her when he thinks and improves everything around for her convenience and children. In such a world, a woman can relax and be just a woman for her man, loving and grateful. It is such a woman who raises happy children, which means healthy both mentally and physically.

But today, consumers are quite common. And women do not think about safety, she gets used to living in danger. She simultaneously needs a man and is afraid of him. A woman cannot live in love and gratitude if the world around is dangerous and it is important to survive. Such a woman raises a child and conveys her fear to him. In such families, children grow up in fear of Life. Men are growing up who are afraid of this world. And what we are afraid of, we want to destroy consciously or unconsciously. On the way out, men are afraid of women and other men. Will a man, filled with fear of this world, be able to create a safe world? Can not! He survives. Whatever relationship he enters into, he survives. He fights with a woman and does not really know why. He always thinks that she wants to solve her problems at his expense or live at his expense, or maybe even live on his money and cheat with others, that is, use him. And be sure to deprive him of freedom, take control of everything. No one really knows what this freedom is and how to feel it. But the woman stubbornly hunts for this freedom, trying to take away,

and the man struggles to defend her in all ways.

The woman is also filled with fear. She is afraid of men, because he can quit, can cheat, can treat badly, beat, humiliate, insult, rape, can offend children. He can substitute his family with his irresponsibility and, of course, trusting him is definitely dangerous. A woman does not believe a man and, being in a relationship and marriage, make plans for how they will live if anything. In this "if that" everyone puts their own: if he dies, if he leaves, if he changes, if imprisoned, etc.

As long as there is fear between the sexes, we cannot understand and agree. But everyone has their own task. Therefore, we cannot live without each other. But with each other it is painful and scary. There are exceptions. Yes, there are mature men and mature women, and then they create a beautiful and healthy union. Where a man loves a woman without fear and creates a safe world around her. And a woman trusts her man without fear, and in this space it is very reliable, warm and comfortable.

But so far, relationships of immature people are still common. Where a woman is poisoned not by the maturity of a man, but a “vomiting” woman next to or even worse with “diarrhea” is no longer attractive.

What to do? Don't blame each other. And everyone should think about their task. Sow the seed of maturity first within yourself in the form of thoughts and questions. Why are we two afraid to sit down, talk and tell the other about fear and about the pain that comes out in the form of anger, reproach, criticism, humiliation, neglect of others. It all looks like a vicious circle. Someone needs to break it. And I know for sure one will not have enough strength.

Why am I angry with my own chosen man, why am I scared, what am I missing, what, in my opinion, is he doing or not doing? Perhaps I regard his actions as dislike for me. It is important to understand what is dislike for me?

For me, dislike if I see what specifically for me my man does not do. At first glance, this may not be useful and rational for a man and a family, but he knows that it will please me and that is why he does it. It does it for me too. And if he considers my desires to be nonsense, then I regard this for myself as dislike, etc. And what is dislike for your man? Do we know the language of each other's love? It is very important for us to understand our love language, to convey it to a loved one and to learn his love language, so that we can speak it with him and respect what is valuable to him. Even if it seemed to you some kind of nonsense and frivolous.

Yes, you may ask, what if I have been telling him for a long time about how to love me, but he ignores? This is a different story. In the language of love for each other, they either agree to speak at once or not. And most likely your loved one did not immediately speak to you like that. But all this time you are with him. What was more important to you then?

One way or another, relationships are work. And when you see the first results, you will understand that this work is enjoyable.

Love each other.