2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Sometimes a moment comes in life and a person realizes that something needs to be changed, so it is unbearable to live like this. But what to do if changes are required in many areas. However, it is not enough just to destroy, it is also necessary to build something on this place, and it is unrealistic to do this in an instant. It's like destroying a house and then building a new one that will be reliable, comfortable, cozy. Agree, this is only found in science fiction. Plus a feeling like fear stops people. Fear of the unknown, fear of change. After all, no one knows what is behind these changes. This fear paralyzes, immobilizes. So what can you do then? So continue to live? Or maybe start small, small … try to change something. For example, throwing out unsatisfactory ice cream. And even though hundreds of phrases will sound in my head: “You can't throw away food!”, “It costs money”, “Do you know how many people worked and tried to make this ice cream?”, “Throwing away food is a sin!”, “It is necessary to finish everything; whoever does not finish eating will not get up from the table! Sound familiar, right? But it’s not tasty! Why should I eat what I don't like ?!
Or remove from friends on social networks a “girlfriend” whose daily posts are filled with irritation, resentment, and anger. Constantly "sorting out the relationship" with the driver of the minibus, the neighbor on the staircase, with the grandmother in line, with the teacher of her son. Our life is already full of stress, news about disasters, deaths that are broadcast to us by the media in order to voluntarily add negativity to our lives.
I agree that after these actions, life will not change dramatically, but you can find out how it is different, you can look at yourself and the world from the other side, experience different feelings. It's not that difficult, is it?
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