2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Destroyer in relationships
For her husband, as for a stone wall. But some husbands in a dangerous situation put their wife in jeopardy, hiding behind like a shield. A dangerous situation will "chop up his wife into cabbage," and at home he will add a darling, accusing him of everything.
The husband encourages the wife to act. And the burden of responsibility bears one. He is always not a lot. The master of the word: he gave the word, he took the word. There is no smell of medieval chivalry or man here.
Such men are unfamiliar with responsibility and guilt. It’s not a pity to set you up, the main thing is that he doesn’t get it.
These are spoiled, selfish boys whose psychological development stopped at the age of 2-3 years.
Such a man is capable of causing damage. There is a destructive detonator in his psyche, and if you are near, then the canvas of destruction will cover your life. And the kinder and more patient, the more mercilessly you are bombed.
How will it destroy your self-esteem?
For example, you are young and beautiful. He also instills that you look awful and are not needed by anyone, especially with a child.
Unconsciously seeks to turn into a slave. After trampling on the personality, there is no need to worry that a glorious woman will go to another. When you are a slave, he can afford EVERYTHING. And you will get bogged down in a swamp of suffering. This is emotional codependency: he is the Aggressor, she is the Victim. Then Karpman's triangle was reversed.
How will it undermine physical health?
In the presence of a sexually transmitted disease, he will not say, but will infect.
How will it absorb savings and money?
If he wants to buy something, he will shake out the last money, convincing and justifying.
These are smart and purposeful men who know how to splurge, distort reality and wishful thinking.
How is the relationship with your friends traumatic?
Persuade him to borrow money from a friend. And when the time comes to repay the debt, he will helplessly throw up his hands and shrug his shoulders.
How will he pick up the property?
In order to pay off the above debt - sell your personal apartment.
Or suddenly he will start a business that he has not the slightest idea about. Take a loan for an apartment, which will slowly float to the bank to pay off the debt.
How will it deprive you of energy and strength?
He takes care of himself. You will be forced to plow to support your family. At home, the second shift on the farm will be waiting for you. After all, the unrecognized genius was looking for himself on the couch. And to clean, wash and cook this is the lot, as they say, of women. Now you will begin to turn into a woman.
Perhaps you have a huge amount of energy that will last for decades of hard labor. But one day weakness and powerlessness will come. And then there is rage and hatred for consumer use.
It will take years to restore the incinerated "castle" of Identity.
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