Three Steps To Getting What You Want

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Remember such a wonderful phrase from the time of the building of communism that each person is the blacksmith of his own happiness? The phrase, in fact, is wonderful and completely true. We all create our reality every day - with our words, thoughts, beliefs, fears, doubts, or vice versa, with our positive and happy mood. Everyone, or almost everyone, has heard that thoughts are material, that we attract into our life what we think about, and many do not even argue with this. And some - and I think many of these people are present here - believe in it, and, moreover, take advantage of it.

I think many of you have watched the movie "The Secret" and know what the universal law of attraction is. In short, the Law of Attraction has three parts: part one, you ask, part two, you are given what you ask, and part three, you accept what you are given. It would seem so simple! According to the law of attraction, whatever you ask for is given to you. Jesus said: "Ask, and it will be given to you, seek, and you will find, knock, and it will be revealed to you." Abraham, the higher entities, whom I often quote, say about the same thing, "Ask and it is Given", and even here the grammatical structure is different, literally - "Ask and it is given to you."

However, many will say that their requests are not fulfilled, despite the fact that they have been asking for a long time, long and hard. And this also has its own explanation.

As Abraham says, of the three components of this task - you ask, you are given, you accept - two are yours, and one is performed by the Universe. Let's take a look at those that concern us, “asking”. First the first. How exactly do you ask?

In my book A Dollhouse for a Hedgehog, I described it this way:

“The teacher was silent and looked out the window.

- Do you think God answers prayers?

- No, - Inessa blurted out, without even thinking. - I went to church, several times, and asked for a good husband and a job, so what? No husband, no job.

- How exactly did you ask?

- How can you ask? So she asked, "give a husband and a job!"

- And what did you feel inside yourself?

Inessa had to concentrate to answer.

“I felt despair,” the voice sounded tired, “and disappointment. And the fear that I am alone and I have no one to help. Therefore, I went to church for help.

- And imagine that your words are not heard. There is a veil between you and God that drowns out words, and only feelings pass through it. That is, he feels your feelings, but does not hear the words. And it gives you what you feel, not what you say.

- Idiotic system, honestly!

- Well, what it is, - the Teacher spread his hands peacefully. - But tell me, what did you get after your prayer?

- That everything has remained the same, there is no good work and I am still alone.

- That is, you were given exactly what you felt?

- It turns out, yes …

"People think that God hears their words … And he hears their feelings and thoughts and what they believe in … If you believe that you are alone, then he will give it to you."

Our communication with the Higher Forces, it seems to me, resembles the communication of a child with his parents. Moreover, "parents", unlike most "earthly" ones, are quite adequate, but "children" are not very adequate. Why - I will explain with an example. Imagine that you are watching a picture of a "baby" throwing a scandal to a parent in a toy store on the topic: "Buy it for me immediately." A good, high-quality scandal, with hysteria, screams, stamping feet, rolling on the floor, and so on. An inadequate parent, tormented by feelings of guilt (“I don’t pay enough attention to the child”), shame (“what will people say”) or self-criticism (“since my child behaves this way, it means that I am a bad parent”), most likely, will rush to buy what the child requires. An adequate parent will shrug his shoulders and either simply take the child out of the store, or sit on the sofa while it calms down. So the Higher Forces - if a person starts asking / demanding something hysterically, they just wait for him to calm down. From the experience of channeling, I will say more - if a person is negative, the Higher Forces do not even come into contact with him. We are visible to them only when we are in the right vibrations, so we can get angry, stamp our feet and shake our fists as much as we want, no one will react to this.

So what is the right way to ask, you ask? There is one trick here. You need to ask for something not out of lack, but out of abundance. Almost like in Murphy's laws - in order to get a loan from a bank, you must first prove that you do not need it, that everything is fine with you. Credit is given only to those who already have something, and not to those who have nothing. Logically, don't you think? I think everyone remembers the recent crisis caused by the fact that banks issued mortgage loans to people who obviously could not pay them back.

So, there is such a universal phrase: "It would be great." Here's how in the example with the child - instead of rolling on the floor and yelling hysterically: "Give me !!!", try to start with gratitude for what you already have, and continue with this gentle: "It would be great, if I had this and that”, and in order to look even more polite in the eyes of the Higher Forces, we can add“In the best way for everyone”. If your desire in some way harms others or yourself, although this is not at all obvious to you, it has every chance of not being fulfilled, this should also be remembered. As they say, God has three answers to your prayers: "Yes," "Yes, but later," "I have something better for you."

I am bringing you to the fact that before blaming the Higher Forces for not fulfilling your desires, think about whether these desires are not hysterical of an immature personality. As an example, I will cite a girl who for three years passionately dreamed that her married lover would divorce his wife and marry her, and was very angry that God still did not fulfill her wishes. When she got tired of demanding, and she waved her hand at this desire, and at the same time broke up with her lover, the one who was intended for her husband appeared, and everything turned out quickly and successfully for them. After a couple of years of a happy marriage, she told me: “You know, I am so grateful that that man was not given to me as my husband! Now I clearly understand that he does not suit me at all."

If you are already happy with what you want to receive, love it, smile at the thought of the object of desire, then this is your prayer, your request, your order, if you want. Be grateful for this now, because gratitude is your payment, almost like when you go to the store for milk. Until you pay for it, you won't be given a drink, right? So it is with desires. To make it come true, you need to pay for it, and not vice versa. As my friend once said: “Let them (meaning the Higher Powers) give me a million first, and then I will believe in all these esoteric things”. So, strictly the opposite - you first have to believe, and only then they will give.

Let's go further. We figured out the first step, the second step, as you remember, is not our concern, this is entirely on the Universe, but with the third step again, everything is not so simple.

For example, take a woman who is unhappy in her marriage. Her husband drinks, walks, does not spend the night at home or at home, but not with her, well, or some other horrors, you can think of yourself. Why she has such a husband is also not very important now. At some point, a woman thinks that she has had enough of such a life, and turns to God: "Lord, give me, finally, a good husband!" The Lord replies: "Of course, my daughter, whatever you say," and sends her a brand new, brand new, handsome husband, faithful, loving, rich, a feast for the eyes. But in order for the requested to appear in reality, it takes time, and tomorrow morning the new husband will not knock on the door, although this is possible. Tentatively, he will knock in a month or two, and the woman would sit quietly and wait, but what is she doing? Let's say the next day her unlucky husband comes home on time, alone and sober, and asks her for forgiveness for his immoral behavior. The woman melts, melts, feeds him with borscht and says, no, well, why do I need a new husband, this one, though inferior, but mine. God shrugs his shoulders, sends the new husband home and writes in a notebook the woman's request - "Bad, but mine." The husband continues to be inferior, but her. As you understand, after a month or two, the woman's patience almost bursts again, she again asks for a new husband, the one on the way, but then the thought comes - what about the children? For the sake of children, you have to be patient. Children are more important, but the husband is a goat, what to do, everyone lives like that. God again shrugs his shoulders, writes in a notebook - "Husband-goat."

And only, perhaps, for the third time - or in 2003 - the woman will be firm in her intention. I want a new husband, period. This - to my mother, I’ll earn money, I’ll feed the children myself, everything, I decided. And the month stands its ground, no matter what. And now, a month later, a brand new beautiful husband with roses at the ready is knocking on her door. Well, further "happy ending" and they lived happily and died on the same day.

What does this example illustrate for us? The importance of that very third step. When you have asked and you have been given, accept it. Wait, don't move out.

Of course, a person may well change his mind. Yesterday I wanted a white Bentley, but today I realized that white does not suit him in style, he needs black. Then you need to promptly make adjustments to the order, the time buffer for this is created so that the Higher Forces make sure that the person is firm in his intention. Moreover, as I usually say to girls looking for a husband, the Universe is almost like a child, it understands everything literally, and even seeks to fulfill the order as quickly as possible. That is, in response to your request, the first option will be offered to you the one that is closest, and if you accept it without understanding whether it suits you 100%, then there will be no one to make a claim. So to speak, “sealed, stamped, delivered”. Women, out of fear that "they won't give them another," grab the first person they come across, and then don't know what to do with him. Hence the rule - always have a checklist. You ordered a gift from the Universe - a husband, a house, a car, a fur coat, a goldfish - upon receipt, check if everything is the way you want, and if not everything - do not take it. Moreover, the responsibility for drawing up the checklist lies strictly with the "ordering"

One girl, ordering a man for the role of her husband, prescribed everything, everything, how much money he earns, what food he eats, what shoe size and hair color he has, and was very happy that the candidate who appeared was suitable in all respects. A year after the wedding, she did not understand why she had a husband, but no happiness, and showed me a "checklist" with ticked boxes: "Look, it still matches!"

Do you know what was missing on this list? It did not say that she loved her husband, and he loved her.

- And what, it was also necessary to write? - the surprise was genuine.

- Well, if it's important for you, then of course. The default likes option is not present.

I think, in general, the phrase should be formulated as follows: "In order to get what he wants, a person must vibrate with what he wants." If you want love, but at the same time speak "Good morning" to your own husband strictly through clenched teeth, or you want money, but every day you complain about the high cost of housing and utilities, or you want happiness, but enthusiastically discuss with everyone the unbearable burden of life, I will not be surprised at all, if none of your wishes come true.

Successful co-creations, Yours, #anyafincham