2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The Japanese say: "If there has not been any crisis in your life that is difficult to survive, you should buy these experiences for a lot of money." This mysterious people know that wisdom does not come to a person at birth or with age. Wisdom is an experience acquired in difficult situations, and with it comes understanding of life.
Some time ago, remembering my past and what I learned, I wrote a list of my mistakes at each stage of my career, which I want to share. These mistakes can be called Anti-laws or how not to do it! Facing our principles, stepping on the rake of our own beliefs, we change, develop variability and learn step by step to interact more harmoniously with the World. In this life, I held different positions: I was a teacher, a waitress, a counselor, I went from an intern to a director in international corporations in HR departments, Marketing, Sales, Trade Marketing (below, about each of the positions will be in more detail). Being in each position, I was firmly convinced that “my position is correct, I am not mistaken, I have no weaknesses!”, And my Teachers jokingly said: “Masha, your weaknesses are your potential. Develop it! Thanks to all of them!
The path that I have passed is difficult and at the same time easy, exciting and sometimes exhausting, but this is my path and I am grateful that it is just that! Today I am so thanks to this path! I am firmly convinced that:
Everything can be achieved in life! This belief was instilled in me since childhood. At the age of 6, I first took first place in gymnastics in the city, moreover, my surroundings told me that it was unrealistic! My family believed in me and I achieved it!
Sometimes you still need to step on your own rake so that the lesson is remembered and the correct conclusion is drawn.
… So, what was my rake in matters of building a career or "How NOT to do" J … NB sometimes what is a mistake at one stage is just right for anotherJ (what a lamb cannot do in any case, a wolf must be able to do it). In the text, you will encounter such contradictions.
1. Teacher at home Kharkov, Ukraine
Age: 16-18
Be at home as a guest.
Scold for failure. Be intolerant of mistakes.
Share your problems.
Be sure that if something does not work out, the student is not capable.
Become part of the student's family and make your own rules.
Feel superior to the student's environment (relatives).
Say goodbye to the student after you stop working with him. What happens next is not important. You are no longer responsible for him.
Discuss with the student and the student's environment of the one who gave you this job.
Get to work anyway, even if you can't.
Be sure that you are not an example in life for the student that he wants to follow.
2. Warden
Kharkov, Ukraine
Age: 17 -19 years old
Enjoy omnipotence. You are now in charge of the group. You can do everything!
Tell the dean's office about the shortcomings / provocations of the group.
Be ruthless to the group's weaknesses.
When you are away, be sure that the group will cope on its own.
The deputy is not needed, because he can take your place.
Be sure that there are no envious people. You will not be replaced.
In return, expect in return.
Defend your rights first, and only then your teams.
Divide the events into yourself and them.
Show your dissatisfaction with other team members in front of the instructors.
Always speak for me.
Trust that you can be good for everyone.
Highlight your personal accomplishments that your group members don't have.
Overthrow your competitors in any way. Destroy anti-leaders in any way. You cannot be friends with them.
When organizing a joint corporate party, emphasize to the team what a GOOD MAN you are and it's all thanks to you.
Make your own decisions and do not consult with the team.
When you become a favorite of the dean's office, stop your friendship with other elders.
Chmyri non-status teachers. The main thing is that you are the dean's favorite. Now everything is possible.
Defending the rights of the group is all good. Don't think about the consequences.
3. Counselo
New York, USA
Age: 19 Be proud that you are the only one from the faculty who went on this program. Now, for sure, others are not important to you. The rest of the weaklings..
When you get to another country, live by your usual rules.
Complain about how bad it is to live in your country.
Deny yourself pleasures for lack of money.
Envy those who live better in other countries. Think up and do dirty tricks.
Forget about those who helped you. You won't meet them again in your life..
Feel inferior instead of seeing opportunities.
If you meet a Ukrainian, ignore it. You only need to strive for the best.
Believe that they help you just like that. If you didn’t ask for help, don’t thank!
Trust without checking!
Don't go deep into the topic! The main thing is to know in general.
Get high from your inferiority, instead of changing something.
Keep your head down! There is always someone who is smarter! There is no point in showing up!
Don't think about the consequences!
Stick your nose wherever they ask! Be curious.
show your emotions and say what you think!
If you want to be noticed - sit and be silent! The smart ones are always silent!
Unite with the weak - many weak will always defeat the strong!
The strong cannot be overthrown.
Fearfully?! Sit down and be afraid!
I saw someone who is better, make friends, learn and say goodbye! You don't need this person anymore!
Make friends with the weak for a long time, they will always pity you and understand how hard it is for you.
If you are appreciated you are free to do what you want.
If you have strayed - sit and be silent! They may not know about your pro-stick! Do not be afraid that they will find out)
It is better to ask than to spend the effort and solve the issue yourself.
Find a replacement for your loved ones, and when you leave a foreign country, cross them out of your life. Now they are not needed, because real loved ones are nearby. Burn all the bridges.
4. Teacher, class teacher
Kharkov, Ukraine
Age: 20 years old
Tell about the curiosities of the students in the staff room.
Shout if they don't listen to you.
Give advice without listening to the end and without delving into the essence of the problem.
In return, expect in return.
Show your dissatisfaction with the class. Let them know and be afraid.
Discuss other teachers with the class.
All is fair in defending the rights of the class. Don't think about the consequences.
Feel at home when visiting students.
Unite with the student's parents.
Scold for failure. Be intolerant of mistakes.
Share your problems with students.
Be sure that if something does not work out, it is the student who is not capable, and not you.
Advise students on how to be with their parents.
Say goodbye to the student after you stop working with him. What happens next is not important. You are no longer responsible for him.
5. Waitres
Chicago, USA
Age: 20 years Feel sorry for yourself if it's difficult.
Work hard. Squeeze the best you can.
When making money, do not leave time for pleasure. They will wait.
Taking someone else's thing, treat it as your own.
Forget about those who helped you. You will never meet them again in your life.
If it's scary - don't do it. Sit down and feel sorry for yourself.
Get angry with your employer and discuss it with people like you. Plan a revenge plan.
Complain to the strong, and when they help do not thank.
Show your emotions and say what you think! Spin the boogers J
If you are appreciated, you are free to do what you want and sit on your neck.
Relax at work.
Sleeping with a higher status do not be afraid of the consequences.
Find a replacement for your loved ones, and when you leave a foreign country, cross them out of your life. Now they are not needed, because the real loved ones are nearby. Burn all the bridges.
Tusi is like the last time in my life. Don't think about the consequences.
Feel your superiority as you become more status.
Brag about earning (tip) more than others.
Dislike the money you've made. Spend them non-stop.
Do only your job and don't help others if you've done it.
Humiliate those who are weaker, you will never need anything from them.
You know how to fool - fool. feel that you are more cunning than the employer. don't think about the consequences.
Say what you think about others! Let them be afraid!
Solve all questions yourself. When you see no way out - kill yourself
6. Trainee (Corporation 1)
Kharkov, Ukraine
Age: 21 years old Share your problems. People are interested in this.
Get to work anyway, even if you can't. Don't ask for advice on what's best.
Enjoy the fact that you are cooler than your environment and no one at your age has achieved such a position.
Defend your rights by all means.
Show your displeasure.
Always speak for me.
Be friends with everyone. Trust that you can be good for everyone. If you can't make friends, then this person is bad J
Highlight your personal accomplishments in your personal life that others don't.
Make contact with the male boss. Don't be afraid that she wants to take you away.
Do not expect revenge when humiliating your enemies.
Believe that you don't need to know the laws of the corporation.
It is important to know the names and facts only about the members of your department.
Complain about how hard it is for you.
Say that the task is difficult. Admit defeat right away and don't even try.
Believe that they help you just like that. If you didn’t ask for help, don’t thank!
Fear top management and communicate with them trembling like a cowardly hare.
Keep your head down! There is always someone who is smarter! There is no point in showing up!
Stick your nose wherever they ask! Be curious.
show your emotions and say what you think!
Unite with the weak - many weak will always defeat the strong!
If you are appreciated you are free to do what you want.
If you have strayed - sit and be silent! They may not know about your pro-stick! Do not be afraid that they will find out)
Don't ask for help. Try to achieve everything yourself.
Discuss colleagues with your supervisor.
Complain about the leader to his leader.
Advise your boss what to do.
Do only your job. If you are given tasks, say that you should not do it.
Get angry with the leader and discuss him with people like you. The manager will not recognize.
Relax at work. Sometimes you can afford to act like friends.
Believe that you are lucky.
7. Assistant (Corporation 2)
Kharkov, Ukraine
Age: 21 -22
Share your problems. People are interested in this.
Get to work anyway, even if you can't. Don't ask for advice on what's best.
Feel your inferiority from serving.
Defend your rights by all means.
Always speak for me.
Don't listen to your boss's advice.
Highlight your personal accomplishments in your personal life to colleagues that others don't.
Humiliate your enemies. Don't expect revenge.
Fear top management and communicate with them trembling like a cowardly hare.
Believe that they help you just like that. If you didn’t ask for help, don’t thank!
Show your emotions and say what you think!
If you are appreciated you are free to do what you want.
If you have strayed - sit and be silent! They may not know about your pro-stick! Do not be afraid that they will find out)
Don't ask for help. Try to do everything yourself.
Relax at work. Sometimes you can afford to act like friends.
Having earned the status, feel your superiority over others
Having put on the crown, hold it tightly on your head.
Believe that they are friends with you just like that and they have no secondary benefit.
Believe that you are lucky.
If you're in the ass - ask for help, even if you think you can get out on your own.
Be friends with everyone. Trust that you can be good for everyone.
Do only your job and don't help others if you've done it.
Communicate with colleagues the same way they do with you.
8. Manager (Corporation 2)
Kiev, Ukraine
Age: 22-23
Say the task is difficult. Admit defeat right away and don't even try.
Keep all tasks in mind, keeping track of things and writing in a diary is the lot of the weak
Be guided by personal values, not corporate ones.
Unite with the weak - many weak will always defeat the strong!
If you are appreciated you are free to do what you want.
I tried it and it didn't work! And to hell with him! You cannot find a way out of any situation!
Keep your head down! There is always someone who is smarter! There is no point in showing up!
Don't think about the consequences!
If you have strayed - sit and be silent! They may not know about your pro-stick! Do not be afraid that they will find out)
It is better to ask than to spend the effort and solve the issue yourself.
Highlight your personal accomplishments in your personal life that others don't.
Show your emotions.
Always be the same and predictable.
Don't wait for the right moment! Take action! What if the right one does not come!
Say directly what you want!
Trust without checking!
Do not go to the higher spaces and do not be friends in them!
Say what We have done, not I.
In return, expect in return.
Having put on the crown, do not be afraid to lose it. Do not expect that there is someone cooler and you will not cease to be a favorite.
Don't ask for help.
Try to achieve everything yourself.
Believe that they help you just like that. If you didn’t ask for help, don’t thank!
Give advice on how to manage and what is better to change.
Take on the team people influenced by emotions. Anything can be fashioned into what you want. Say what you didn't, because someone or something is to blame.
Reputation is easy to restore.
Have fun at corporate parties as hard as you work!
Treat the company's business like someone else's
Sometimes it is better to swing forward than to go back and take a few steps back.
Relax at work. Sometimes you can afford to act like friends.
Get angry with the leader and discuss him with people like you. The manager will not recognize.
Feel your superiority as you become more status.
Work and earn, because you know how to then spend money on pleasure.
Complain about how hard it is for you. Feel sorry for yourself if it's difficult.
Get to work anyway, even if you can't. Do not ask for advice on what is best and what they want to get as a result.
If you see that a person has grown, keep him with you, chmyr and do not let go. Constantly look for holes even in ideal work.
Pay no attention to those who have not built a career! Only the same status as t can give advice on how best to do a blow job, where the most delicious coffee and the most fun massage.
Having received the best conditions for life, you will become God.
Do not calculate in advance! Be confident in your abilities! You are so nimble and cool that you can get out of it anyway! Whatever happens!
Believe that they are friends with you just like that and they have no secondary benefit.
Stand your ground to the last!
Believe that you are lucky.
Scold for failure. Be intolerant of mistakes.
Divide the events into yourself and them.
Advise your boss what to do.
Do only your job. If you are given tasks, say that you should not do it.
Show your emotions and say what you think!
Do what they want about you unconditionally. Don't ask why.
9. Manager (Corporation 2)
Kiev, Ukraine
Age: 23-24 Highlight to colleagues your personal achievements in personal life that others do not have.
Know about your provocations everyone will know. And this is important for them. Now only superficiality.
Forget about those who helped you. You will never meet them in your life.
Give advice without listening to the end and without delving into the essence of the problem.
Stick your nose wherever they ask! Be curious.
If you deserve praise, then you are always the best in relaxation. Believe that they are friends with you for no reason and they have no secondary benefit.
Team up with subordinates against the leader.
Allow the slack at work.
Get angry with the leader and discuss him with people like you. The manager will not recognize.
Solve all questions yourself. When you see no way out - kill yourself
Having earned the status, feel your superiority over others
Set a goal and go to it, turn-based strategy is the lot of weaklings
Ask extra questions!
Humiliate your enemies. Don't expect revenge.
Desires of status do not fear the consequences.
Tusi is like the last time in my life. Don't think about the consequences.
Humiliate your enemies and friends. Don't expect revenge.
Use the information about your friends for your promotion.
Show your displeasure.
Enjoy the fact that you are cooler than your environment and no one at your age has achieved such a position.
A deputy is not needed, because he can take your place.
Those who tell you about the provty want to humiliate you!
Get high from your inferiority, instead of changing something.
People will learn on their own and will reach what you have reached. They read your mind.
Hit from behind the shoulder / from the back.
Poke your nose where they don’t ask and where they don’t invite!
Make sure your roof can solve any problem. The roof will protect against any storm.
It was not you who poked it, but they!
When you are absent, be sure that it will go smoothly.
I saw someone who is better, make friends, find out and say goodbye! You don't need this person anymore!
Friends at work won't hit.
Do not go to the higher spaces and do not be friends in them!
Overthrow your competitors in any way.
Believe that they help you just like that. If you didn’t ask for help, don’t thank!
Dislike the money you've made. Spend them non-stop.
If you're cool, then no one can replace you
Relax at work. Sometimes you can afford to act like friends.
Work and earn, because you know how to then spend money on pleasure.
Reveal all the cards at once, do not leave the riddle! You must be an open book!
10. Manager (Corporation 2)
Kiev, Ukraine
Age: 24-25
Always start with the strongest trump card! He took out the strongest one and immediately won! Let from weak to strong - this is the way to nowhere!
Don't go deep into the topic! The main thing is to know in general.
Keep all tasks in mind, keeping track of things and writing in a diary is the lot of the weak.
If humiliated / greyhounds / do not obey immediately put it in place. give change so that you don't want to again
Never forgive anyone! If you let it down once, it will do the same the second time! People do not change! Such people have no place in your life!
Find flaws in people and tell them directly about it!
Discuss with colleagues with your supervisor.
There are no women and men at work! There are only colleagues! All same sex! show your emotions and say what you think!
Do not delve into the reasons why the task was not completed. If the task was set, demand unconditional fulfillment.
Those who tell you about the provocations want to humiliate you! Destroy them from your life!
Ask what only your close circle thinks of you.
Humiliate your enemies. Don't expect revenge.
Be sure that the boss is not deserved in his place and you know more!
Keep quiet and do not tell the management about the exit you see.
Look for only shortcomings in people, and do not look at their status.
Dislike the money you've made. Spend them non-stop.
Swear like it's the last time. Don't hold back.
Go only one way!
When making money, do not leave time for pleasure. They will wait.
Quiet Envy! Do not communicate with him! This person does not exist!
Work with your friends.
If he gave something to a person, he will definitely pay with you
Dangers always come only when ready! Do not expect a blow from the back! You are always ready!
Tell everyone and always about your achievements!
Don't choose the right shape to prove, hit, put in place, reach the goal! Act immediately and without hesitation! Prove your case at all costs.
Work and earn, because you know how to then spend money on pleasure.
Don't ask for advice! Decide everything yourself!
Don't ask others what they think of you! You shouldn't care
11. Manager (Corporation 3)
Kiev, Ukraine
Age: 26-27
There are no women and men at work! There are only colleagues! All same sex!
Humiliate your enemies. Don't expect revenge.
Retain employees in any way! All means are good!
Who is more strongly measured not by gender, but by achievements.
Dislike the money you've made. Spend them non-stop.
Kill yourself into a piece of shit! Work hard. Squeeze the best you can. Airplanes come first, girls come after J
Having reached the status, do not be accentuated on your appearance! Be merciless to the weaknesses and provocations of the group.
Advise the manager what to do without choosing the form.
Your team members are irreplaceable. Do not look for several replacement candidates for each.
12. Director (Corporation 4)
Kiev, Ukraine
Age: 27-28
Enjoy the fact that you are cooler than your own and not your environment! No one at your age has achieved such a position. This is the greatest achievement in life!
Shouting is the best way to get your way.
Believe that any subordinates can be fired.
Be sure that it is people who need to be with you, not you with them!
Be sure that you can control everything and always YOURSELF.
Enjoy being afraid of you.
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Actually, probably all the rakes that I could remember when building a career, which I stepped on and which hurt me, but nicely on the forehead:) I am sure that there are still others that have been displaced and gone deep into my unconscious) These mistakes have helped and are helping me to make correct conclusions and be who I am today. Development is life!
“For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: If today is the last day in my life, will I do what I have planned for today?” Steve Jobs
Having passed this one, let me know for sure today: “It's not me that people need because of their fucking fucking need, but they are me! Regardless of the rank of personality, people are your teachers! I had cool teachers !!! Very cool !!! I wish all of these! I am very grateful to them for the fact that they tolerated me, taught me, invested tirelessly, showed me the inharmony of my behavior, pulled me along, inspired me by their example! Thank you my teachers! You are amazing personalities and I am insanely proud that I was lucky to work with you !!! Your huge contribution is present in the one that I am now present! Thank you!
I would like to conclude this article with one of my favorite quotes:
“-… tell me, do the gods ever change their main passions?” Yama smiled. “The goddess of dance was once the god of war. So it looks like things could change. R. Zelazny
….. But this is another story of my life) maybe someday I will write about her too)
Thank you! Your Masha:)
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