No Step Back

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

We all want to be successful, healthy, financially, professionally and personally prosperous. We have desires and aspirations, near and distant goals. But for some reason, we do not always manage to get what we want. In this case, ask yourself the question: do I really need it? When a person needs something very much, he makes every effort to achieve his goal.

No step back

If a person tries, but there is still no result, it is worth thinking about how exactly his goal is formulated. What does his actions lead to? What should be done to get the result?

For example, I am a counselor psychologist. I need to attract clients. I sit and wait for them to turn to me. At the same time, my advertising is not on the network, I do not publish on any portals, word of mouth does not work, since I had 1-3 clients or did not have it at all. I have a diploma of education and knowledge, but no practice, no clients. Where do they come from? How will they know about me?

Success and failure are largely subjective concepts. We often fail to achieve what we want because we are not putting in enough effort. We can declare anything we want, but what matters is what we actually do.

By my example, I was convinced that if a person really wants something and does everything for this, he can get it. Every day, every action you do towards your goal. Ask yourself: How will this help me achieve my goal? If such an action does not help you at all, but, on the contrary, even hinders you, why do you continue to do this?

See what your time is spent on? Are you living the life you would like? What's stopping you from changing it? There are objective circumstances, but there are also invented reasons. It's just that our subconscious is defending itself. It may be dangerous to be successful. Or maybe it takes too much effort. And maybe something else …

If a person leads public for nothing, for communication, he has this communication. If he wants to grow professionally, he does everything in this direction, and the result will certainly be. And someone actively gets to know and communicates with a wide range of people and will definitely achieve a well-deserved result on this path. In general, your goal is always tested by outcome. Whatever excuses you try to explain it.

Of course, there are insurmountable life circumstances, but everyone goes through them in his own way. Someone comes out with experience and survival skills, while someone understands that he does not need anything, just wrap himself in a blanket, turn away to the wall and fall asleep.

The character determines the fate, not its ease, but the passage of difficulties. And the character is formed all his life in work and overcoming. Therefore, when doing something, it is worth remembering that it is at this moment that you are building your future, and a lot depends on you!

Author: Sokurenko Anna