2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Dear reader, how do you cope with your difficulties? Do you have your own strategies? If there is, welcome to the conversation! I will wait for your responses. In the meantime, I will share my thoughts on the topic …
Look … Let's say something inevitable happens to us, which cannot be influenced, or something significant does not stubbornly happen that does not depend on our will - what in these cases (due to immaturity) do people periodically sin? They find the guilty ones, blame the circumstances, curse their lives. That is, they act from the position of a small child: "Give me that toy right now! Oh, don't you want it ?! Bad ones! Get hysterical!" - and then - they get offended, go into depression, neurosis or binge. And-and-and … lose … "Mom" (that is, fate) in this case, even more so "will not buy a toy" ….
After all, an unsolvable event was not admitted by chance and has its own serious background … And if we continue the analogy with a child, then …
- or early,
- or did not deserve
- or simply not worth it - it's dangerous …
Fate in a certain sense is the same Parent or Teacher, and everything that is allowed in it, in the name and for our sake.
I don't know how you feel about Michael Newton, an American regressologist, doctor of psychology, and bestselling author of life and death, but his concept explains a lot …
For 50 years, Dr. Newton, through a special method - regressive hypnosis - studied the programs of the subconscious of his patients, in order to study possible, embedded algorithms, eventually finding out the following: we come to this world to live a certain scenario (with acceptable options, transitions, development) but generally given. The purpose of the software internal algorithms is valuable, the big one is to grow the core, the soul. The most interesting thing is that the soul before birth, according to Newton (and I will remind you: he is a scientist, Doctor of Science), accepts its history, subscribing to each upcoming event, with the awareness of their value influence … Based on what has been said, it is clear: our stories, independent of us as a given are not admitted by chance and imply a sacred subtext for us. We influence something, something we do not, but both should be treated with respect.
Using the proposed analogy, I will reveal another example: a well-bred, grown-up child, having not received what he wants, can:
- clarify the reasons
- find out the possibilities,
- agree on the main thing,
- think over strategies and
- make the best decision at a particular moment.
And so it turns out to be right! He is in agreement with the current reality and in the conscious acceptance of an independent but important reality. Does it make sense to rebel every time if you can grow up and achieve? Natural process! Evolution!
By the way, very often, when analyzing the refusals of our fate after the lapse, we understand its healing implications: those refusals were for salvation - not otherwise …
In this respect, the people say: "Everything that is not done is for the better!" In truth it is so!
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