2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Everyone wants to meet their love, plunge headlong into the romantic fantasy of an ideal relationship. It seems that it is love and intimacy that will bring that calmness that was so lacking in life. Relationships will wrap up with care and endless happiness.
However, when meeting real people, the beautiful fantasy is not realized. Background dissatisfaction, claims appear, and the place of the light image remains vacant. Due to the inability to accept the complexities of relationships, their requirements and limitations, many remain at the mercy of the bright hope of meeting “that ideal”.
There are those who are not ready to sacrifice their inner independence and social independence for the sake of some old family values, stupid obligations and everyday conventions.
So the ranks of super-independent and self-sufficient individuals are replenished, not burdened with the banal problems of being together.
To admit your emotional connection and some dependence on the object of love is shameful and trite. Sacrificing at least part of your independence for the sake of relationships is not cool at all.
Independent inner loneliness. The inability to build freedom in relationships gives rise to the desire for freedom from close relationships.
Of course, it is difficult to appreciate the rare sincere moments of being together, for which you need to make efforts. After all, the world is full of opportunities to enjoy yourself. The world is generally more convenient when you are not bound by anything.
To notice your weakness, the need for another person. Believe that someone can love us in different ways, and forgive another for his own imperfection. Endure shame and embarrassment while acknowledging the importance of relationships. Accept your own imperfection due to emotional attachment. These are the efforts that allow us to linger longer with another person.
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