2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
You know how it happens, a couple lives for themselves, and everything is good with them, but not very much. As soon as scandals begin, they immediately call their partner's parents in order to influence their offspring.
This can be done by one partner in relation to the second, or both.
And so, a third (or a whole gang) appears “in bed” of the young.
Why does this happen?
(we will analyze when one of the partners behaves this way)
👉Anxiety that the partner is not doing what we are used to, so protection from the outside is sought.
👉Searching for a lack in a partner in order to be able to win the love of his parent (such a child's competition).
👉Lack of ability to stay in a pair, neurotic need to bring a third person into partnership (children are often involved here).
👉Fear of the parent of his partner, therefore, the demonstration of the badness of their child takes place in order to win the first one to his side.
What happens to sex life?
But nothing, usually it goes into the background altogether. Since one partner is “eternally bad” in front of the spouse and his parent, he constantly feels the attack on his boundaries and fights for his rights. What's the sex.
In this type of therapy, the image of the parent and the child in the client is important. After all, often at this moment the gag happened.
Why else do you think you call your partner's mom and complain about him?
Sexologist Tatiana Pavlenko
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