2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
What prevents a person from earning more than he has? Among other things, the reason for this is the various attitudes that we receive in the process of education. Dwelling firmly in the depths of our unconscious, these statements form the concept of "normality", and, further manifesting itself as a framework-limitation, affect motivation and behavior. When a person tries to change something, for example: to want to earn more, he often stumbles upon difficult experiences that can stop his undertakings. Here are some of the attitudes that, when violated, can lead to shame and fear:
It's a shame to be rich because:
… intelligent man, first of all, lives on spiritual food. He will not sink to the banal making of money. This is petty and unworthy for a highly developed and finely organized soul. If a person is rich, it means that he is very far from spirituality, resides in the gross worlds. An intelligent person despises a rich man for wanting money. He himself is free from such base desires and does not waste time on this. Only a minimum of time for a minimum of money. The rest of the time should be devoted to your spiritual growth and development. Values can only be spiritual, and material values are simply devalued.
… decent and honest a person cannot be rich. Because they earn a lot only through dishonest means. How can an honest person make a lot of money? Necessarily something close to the criminal code: theft, fraud, bribery. Or dubious professions that are not approved by society. Since before the majority of the population worked in government jobs and received their salaries, people who had a lot of money were perceived as suspicious and involved in unclean affairs.
If a person even earns in an honest way, decides to put a higher price for his services or goods than others, then he can be christened an impudent person, someone who “fights at exorbitant prices” and profits from others. Or be caught in greed.
… modest, which means worthy and respected man does not have many desires. Modesty adorns a person. For happiness, not much should be enough for him: the necessary food, modest housing, rest in the country, and it is better to spend his vacation on repairs with his own hands, so as not to call hired workers. A modest person does everything himself: cleans, cooks, dyes, wears, etc. He knows how to save money and his desires. Money is not needed by someone who has no desires.
Being rich is scary because:
… it is dangerous for the life of your own and your loved ones … A person who is rich and possesses material values will certainly become the object of human envy and condemnation from those who do not have it. The world is unsafe and is bound to turn against it and cause harm. They will be taken away, robbed - and this is not the worst thing that can happen. You must constantly think about the safety of your own and your family members.
… you can lose family and friends. A lot of money means a lot of work and responsibility. Such a person will have no time to devote time to his family. He will spend all his time at work and even think about money in his free time. And friends can become jealous and stop communicating. Or they can start using him and be friends with him for the sake of money, and then he himself will have to part with them.
… Constant fear about the safety of money and property. When there is a lot of money, it is necessary either to store it somewhere, or to invest it somewhere. In our unstable time, there is nothing to rely on, neither banks nor political and economic conditions. A lot of money - a lot of nerves. Nervous diseases and insomnia will surely begin to appear. And yet, at one point, everything that has been acquired by back-breaking labor can be lost. Then a heart attack or depression, at least. No money, no problem. You sleep soundly and calmly. And you will die healthy and in extreme old age, because whoever has strong nerves lives for a long time.
… A lot of money gives rise to many temptations and temptations. Man is a weak being. And if you give him a lot of money, it will surely ruin him, he will start allowing himself a lot and off and on downhill … Money spoils good people. Takeaway: Big money is evil and it's best to stay away from it.
All installations are the accumulated experience of previous generations. And each of them may have its own rational grain. But it would be very useful to take them out and check: maybe something is already outdated and has lost its relevance?
… Times and outlook are changing, the world and people's attitude to money are changing. But one thing remains unchanged: money is an opportunity and it is a responsibility. Big money means big opportunities and big responsibility. Therefore, thinking about big money, you need to ask the question, why do I need it, how do I want to use it and am I ready to be responsible for it?
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