2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
More and more letters come that I really want to go to work and finally work out my internal conflicts, but there is no money … Everything matters. There are no trifles. For example, one extra candy a day can easily turn into several kilograms of excess weight in a year.
All that you have today is the accumulated potential of your daily small choices, actions, words, actions.
"Sow a thought - reap an action, sow an action - reap a habit, sow a habit - reap a character, sow a character - reap a destiny." This was said by the ancient thinker and philosopher Confucius.
And so, let's see what kind of daily small deeds and actions create the potential for poverty and the potential for wealth.
The first thing poor people do, but the rich certainly never do - they wait for Friday, as a salvation from work for a couple of days!
They go to work for a salary, trying to make as little effort as possible while rejoicing in anticipation of Friday and sadly remembering Monday.
They miss the most important thing - the opportunity to significantly improve their skills, gain the necessary knowledge to become a high-level professional and start making a lot of money, incl. starting his own business in the future.
But if you approach this from the point of view of a rich person, then the experience of hired labor is an invaluable resource, for the use of which they also pay!
The second thing poor people do is spend more money on their children than on themselves.
It seems to them that the child will feel deprived and they are ready for anything, if only he dresses as well as others. But this is just a reflection of the internal problems of parents, fears, self-pity, resentment.
Over time, this is necessarily transmitted to the child and forms dependence on the opinions and assessments of other people. Creates a bunch of fears for him, a feeling of self-pity, etc. But these emotions are a reason to solve your internal problems, and not a reason to sacrifice everything for the sake of the child.
Third, poor people, entering the store, think about what they cannot afford. Every day, repeating in my head many times the thoughts about “expensive…, little money…, I can't buy myself…” they only strengthen the potential of poverty, making it almost impenetrable.
Fourth, they look at money as the cause of their problems. For them, money is a limitation, because of which they cannot afford travel, a new car, live where they want, expensive clothes. Money is what gets annoying.
Fifth, poor people are always ready to help for free with advice, even if they are not asked. But at this moment they take responsibility for the life of another person, and for free - taking money for this is inconvenient and even ashamed for them.
Sixth - a low-income person buys household items and clothes on credit. In pursuit of momentary pleasure, for the here and now, he does not think about what he is losing in the future.
At the same time, the potential for life is accumulated depending on the debts. Gradually, the obligation to the bank becomes the only possible way to motivate people to take action.
Seventh - looking for his only vocation to start earning. “I don’t understand what I want…, I don’t see any opportunities around… as if I’ve hit a wall…” - this is all a consequence, not a reason. The question is not in occupation, but in relation to oneself. This happens in childhood, when the environment of his criticism, for any reason, does not allow the child to experience the experience of joy. And in this state, a person lives for the rest of his life, he simply does not know what it is like to rejoice in what is today and now.
Often, when a person comes to me and says “I don’t know what I want to do,” we are talking about the lost ability to enjoy life and from their actions.
Eighth, they borrow money, because it is inconvenient to refuse. In fact, they buy love and recognition with money. A poor person is afraid to receive condemnation and is ready to give up any money, if only they thought well of him.
But if we borrowed money to someone, then for our subconscious mind this is a direct indication that we have already had enough. And the growth of income immediately stops, or even falls.
Ninth - poor people have credit cards "just in case" they suddenly need them. And indeed, this case is coming!
The fact is that our subconscious mind does not distinguish between credit and non-credit money. For him, if there is money on the card, then you can use it. And the background feeling that money may be needed is based on the fear that money may not be enough. And here is this mixture of money, which is supposedly freely available and fear that it is about to run out and leads to the fact that, in the end, without a credit card as without hands.
Tenth, the poor man blames himself. He usually carries with him an unbearable burden of guilt and a sense of duty. After all, what are debts and a debt hole? This is the physical embodiment of the inner state of a person, when the feeling of guilt and duty becomes the norm. First in front of parents, then teachers, later employers, wife, children …
In reality, one can get rid of debts to banks only by working with internal problems, with subconscious programs that lead to these difficulties.
If now you understand that some of the points apply to you (by the way, write in the comments how many points you have found at your place) - it's time to work them out.
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