2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Situation: The client, let's call her Elena, described her situation in life as follows.
The purpose of the placement, Elena formulated her desired state as follows: “I am able to get satisfaction from work. I am able to find adequate use of my abilities. I receive income that matches my contribution. I have high self-esteem."
First test in the constellation showed Elena's interweaving with the plight of her maternal great-grandmother. During the famine in Ukraine, many of her children died. The symptom of the deputy is severe weakness, difficulty breathing, severe abdominal pain, many tears.
Decision this interweaving was - to share with the difficult fate of the great-grandmother, her husband and children, and to do it with deep respect. It took a long time until the sea of tears was cried out, the emotions of sadness were reacted. Gradually, deep breathing returned to Elena's body. "I'm alive, it's time for me to take up my life."
Second test showed the connection between Elena's situation and the fate of unborn children in the family: numerous abortions of women in the family, abortion of the mother, ectopic pregnancy of the client herself. Symptoms of the substitute are severe back pain.
Decision in this situation - to look in turn at all unborn children, see them, lead them to the "world of the dead", realize their previously unconscious feelings of guilt and process it. “It's not my fault what happened to you. Rest in peace, you are forever a part of our family. I remember you, and I respect your fate. I will live my life without repeating your fate. Bless and look at me kindly. I have to go".
Again, it took a long time until the tears were cried out, the emotions reacted. And again it was noticeable how gradually, very gradually, breathing deepened into the stomach, how the client's posture straightened.
Third test revealed that in the entire family system there is a resentment of women against men. In other words, there is a myth in the family that in different generations men, one way or another, left women to cope with problems alone ("they were captured in the war, could not save from hunger, raped, drank, did not work, tyrannized" and etc.). And Elena in her life very faithfully followed in the wake of this unconscious myth, found such men for herself - both partners and employers who could not be relied on.
Decision this situation was the realization of this family myth and their separation from it. “Dear women of my kind, I love you very much. You have a right to your beliefs. These beliefs are based on the experience of your life. And I respect both your experience and your beliefs. But today I leave them to you. And I myself will build my life on the basis of other beliefs. I want to take risks and trust men, and build relationships with them on an equal footing, respectful, confidential, mutually beneficial. In love and harmony. In partnership and in business. Wish me good luck. Look at me kindly when I am happy and successful."
The symptoms of the body were a very good clue this time too. Catherine felt a strong relief in her shoulders, in her neck. "I fell like a stone from my soul." Deep breathing, straight posture, vigorous fullness and mobility in the legs and arms.
“I am so new now! Free and happy! And I love it!"
The sky is getting closer. You are standing next to …
You see not that. And you’re not saying that …
You do not understand, deaf and dumb, That the air is filled with holy purity
That the drops, sparkling, washed the whole earth, Golden rays sparkle on the domes, And the wind is elastic … And it seems to me -
Our ship is flying along the azure wave, And the sea is rustling with its needles, foliage …
Can't you see again ?!
You're just blind! …
The space around and the space below us.
I just fly without touching my feet …
I fly over the merry and wet grass
I fly over a birch tree almost dear, I'm flying off the cliff, and the earth is so warm …
I am again like a bird - brave and free!
Running on the asphalt laughing and playing
I want to sing! Our life is young!
And I want everyone along the way
Kiss, lead a story, So that their gloomy faces smile …
Don't you understand again ?! You're just stupid! …
Okay, I'm sorry. I'm just funny.
I feel sorry for you. After all, you are not given
See all the colors, inflorescences of the world, Hear all the sounds of the cosmic lyre
To know the genius of the creator's nature, To understand my folly to the end …
You lost everything in your distant childhood.
You have forgotten the magical feeling of flying.
You trampled the eccentric in yourself …
And the clouds are flying by and flying by …
The sky is getting closer. You are standing next to …
You see not that. And you’re not saying that.
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