2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
About channels for accepting and giving money
The information that how easy a person is to the incoming money and just as easily lets go - so rich he is, I first heard at one training session 4 years ago.
There it was argued with the esoteric words "energy", "flow".
I am a skeptic by nature, and therefore (when I started working with clients on the topic of monetary psychological blocks) I tested this idea in practice.
Indeed, there is a clear relationship between the level of a person's income and his psychological attitude to the receipt and expenditure of money.
So case 1. Male, 34 years old, salary $ 620. Sometimes bonuses are ~ $ 230
I ask for an emotional reaction to the situation of receiving a salary. It is negative.
To the question: “Why is this so?”, He answers: “Why should we rejoice? This money is not enough, so you need this and this … Paid for a whole month, we could have paid more."
I ask for an emotional reaction at the time of parting with money. Extremely negative.
Paying for something is not comfortable. It would be better so that there were less costs.
Case 2. Woman, 38 years old. Monthly income floating $ 1400-2100
Getting money is nice. This is comfort, this is pleasure.
Parting with money is an emotional reaction somewhere positive (when buying something pleasant), somewhere negative (buying necessary things, ordinary products, when paying utility bills and other payments).
Case 3. Entrepreneur, male, 29 years old. Income from $ 5,000 per month and more
Receiving money: broke into a smile, glad that he succeeds, that he can, that he achieved.
Giving money away: nice too. The word “I invest” sounds here - in health, in recreation, in other services.
Now, the most important thing. You might think that income determines the reaction.
That it's easy to enjoy money when you earn a lot. But no.
I ask the man: what was his attitude to the arrival / departure of money at the beginning of the journey, when he earned a penny. Also!
“I rejoiced at the first successes and dreamed of development. I gave it for a rented apartment, utilities, for food - with gratitude. Thanks to these people, I have the opportunity to eat tomatoes, live in a warm apartment, etc."
Case 4. My personal experience
When I get stuck in expenses, I often thought about how to save money, what is “is it expensive”, “buy or can I get by?” - earned little.
And thanks to:
to the system of perception: “Everything is available. Everything is possible. The universe is full of possibilities. It all depends on me"
Along with allowing myself to be more happy with what I have, my income has increased several times.
I haven’t got rid of my internal toad completely (to clamp down when choosing: whether to buy something that I really want), but it has already greatly decreased in size.
I cultivated in myself an emphasis on pleasures, to live in the present time, in the “here and now”, I began to allow myself more, to allow myself - and life began to play more with colors. I began to invest more money in pleasure - and incomes also increased.
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