2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Let's remember an old urban romance?
It is short, beautifully arranged by Zhanna Bichevskaya, so be sure to listen!
For me she
- not about love, but about dependence on a man who is indifferent to her
- about hopelessness
- about the ostentatious bravado of a desperate woman
- He does not need her either as a wife, or as a sister, or as a stranger - a man does not need this woman in any form!
- And she continues to ask, insist, "swagger"!
- She can only regret it, I think that she also regrets herself, because she does not love herself and does not respect.
Therefore, her love to self-denial, although it evokes emotions in us, nevertheless, looks pitiful and … intrusive!
Loving yourself is hard, but respecting is much easier, especially when you have something to do!
If you cannot love yourself, learn to respect!
Precisely in the presence or absence of self-respect, I think, is the difference between initiative and obsession!
I wrote about this in articles:
The first step of a woman. What's the worst that will happen? An exercise
How can a woman write to a man first so that you are not mistaken for easily accessible?
Neatly and not intrusively to draw attention to yourself - this is about, in my opinion, just about self-respect, about care and the desire to use all opportunities, as available keys to a happy relationship!
After all, having written a respectful greeting to a man you like, this is not even the first step, but only a way to draw attention to himself, he is still a hunter and will decide for himself:
- Does he like you visually?
- Do you have the same interests?
- Did something click in his head or in his soul?
Even in nature, for the male to pay attention to the female, he must see her! Therefore, just being caught in the eye doesn't mean anything!
If there is no answer, then it didn’t happen, and to continue to remind of yourself, this is already importunity!
Here you should just take this situation as a lesson and keep moving on!
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