2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
One of the important functions of pain is to direct a person's attention to the right places and contexts
In this sense, pain is our friend
After all, it is known that the most dangerous diseases sneak up asymptomatically. And they don't even bother at first. It is then a man up and down explores his feelings "then", and finds something to catch on to.. And the post factum dreams that then! I got so sick and twisted that I would crawl to the doctor right away, maybe I would get off easily and in a timely manner.
But this is the reasoning later. And as long as the pain does not deign to present itself as a pointing finger, then it is not clear where to look and what to see.
Here, of course, the healthy distinction between hypochondria and a real symptom is important. And hypochondria is also a symptom. This is what brings many people down.
Especially when the environment strongly recommends "not to take nonsense into your head, not to pay attention and not to cheat yourself."
It is important to understand here that even if you are just a suspicious boring person who annoyed everyone with your ailments, this does not mean that you cannot have anything serious. And the environment is not always the experts. It is definitely dangerous to rely here.
It is very true that "even if you are not paranoid, it does not mean that you are not being followed."
In general, if everything is fine and stable with you, and then, suddenly, you get sick, then this can be considered lucky!
This pain ally on horseback with a spear galloped up and pokes in the right place to attract your attention.
Worse, when the hut is on fire, and the pain does not even itch, he knows that you will strangle it with a pill, but never pay attention.
Only at the end. he will inevitably come to the ashes.. look, whine, moan.
The same goes for the heartache.
The good news is that if there is pain, then you are alive, and your defenses are not atrophied..
It is she, the pain, that will make you look for a way out, a solution, a way … sometimes, for this, she can become unbearable, this is her last argument. to push you there or to those who will help. Break or ignore various prejudices, go through them. stop overestimating your attempts to cope yourself.
In such a situation, the participation of the third is inevitable.
First, in the third, they often take close and "not indifferent". Friends, acquaintances, fit to listen … sometimes alcohol.
The catch is that they all bring their own personal distortion, with the best of intentions, of course.
As André Maurois said: "advice is always a confession."
And, in fact, you go with your own confession, and you get someone else's.
Any experience is invaluable. But only in the context of a particular life.
What works for one may be completely useless for another.
Sincerely wanting to help and knowing how are two different things.
Your pain is special and unique, it does its job as best it can.
Go to her meeting, meet her, hear her.
Find a good guide, someone who knows how to lead you along the swinging suspended bridge of uncertainty, throws the belay, hold your hand in the most dangerous places, show you where to look in order to see.
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