2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Every parent wants to be the best for their child, I want to fill him with the best upbringing, the best development, the best and most positive experience.
But before giving all the best, you need to assess what your child needs. It is unbiased to see your child, to understand him.
But how to help him is not clear, because we were not specially taught this, and they rarely write about upbringing in books.
In our time, upbringing has turned into an understanding of "successful work, rapid career, and material well-being" and these thoughts take much more time than thoughts about decency, humanity, morality. Unfortunately, in the modern world, parents rarely pay attention to the education of the soul.
How to teach a child to be in harmony with himself, to respect and love people, how to teach and grow morality and morality, how to endow a child with vitality?
We all live in culture, in a social society, and the concept of morality and moral culture is now more about internal beliefs and principles. It's about upbringing in a family.
Indeed, in the family, the child receives the basics of knowledge about the environment, and with the developed cultural and educational potential of the parents, he continues to receive not only the basics, but also the culture of life itself.
The family is a certain moral and psychological climate
In the family, the child develops the first ideas about good and evil, about decency, honesty, respect.
It is in the family that the child experiences a feeling of love, responsibility, justice.
A child who has not received parental love can grow up embittered, heartless to the experiences of other people, impudent, quarrelsome in a team of peers, and sometimes can be withdrawn and very shy.
Growing up in an atmosphere of excessive love, worship and reverence, a child can develop early traits of selfishness, spoiledness and hypocrisy.
And if in the family there is no harmony, feelings, then in such families the development of the child is complicated, family upbringing becomes an unfavorable factor in the development of personality.
True, the experience of family education shows that it is not always excellent due to the fact that some parents do not know how to raise and promote the development of their own children, others do not want, others cannot due to any important circumstances (serious illness, financial losses, problems at work), the fourth simply do not attach much importance to this.
Accordingly, each family has more or less educational potential. The results of upbringing depend on these opportunities and on how intelligently and purposefully parents use this potential.
In the conditions of modern reality, psychological assistance is an urgent opportunity to overcome problems in the process of raising children.
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