Codependency: She Lied To Herself That She Was Happy With Everything

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Video: Codependency: She Lied To Herself That She Was Happy With Everything
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Codependency: She Lied To Herself That She Was Happy With Everything
Codependency: She Lied To Herself That She Was Happy With Everything
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She lied to herself. Once again she lied that she was satisfied with everything. That she was comfortable paying the dinner bill herself. And then buy food for breakfast and cook for it. After all, he wants breakfast! And if she doesn’t cook, then he will go to eat with his mother … Or his wife …

She lied that she did not want courtship and care. That she is satisfied with his coldness and rudeness. That she is always ready to have sex with him. Even when not ready. That she is pleased. Although really unpleasant. What is she interested in. Although not really interesting.

She lied to herself that she liked ironing his shirts. Yes. I like it … But nothing in return. What did he say when she asked him to buy milk (for him for breakfast)? Vooot. And she lied to herself that he was free and had the right to refuse her the purchase of milk. Has the right to. May not buy. May not respond to her requests. And she will continue to lie to herself that everything suits her. She will continue to ignore that he is not doing anything for her.

She lied to herself that she liked to massage him and tell him bedtime stories. Yes. I like it … But what did he say when she also asked for a massage? Vooot. And she lied to herself that he was free and had the right to refuse her a massage. Has the right not to want. Has it? And she will continue to lie to herself that everything suits her.

She lied to herself that she was satisfied with his endless glances at the breasts of other women and exclamations of "Oh, what …!" She lied to herself that her self-esteem was strong and would not suffer. And he’s with her. Why could she be unpleasant?

She lied to herself that she was satisfied with his drink. He's free. Has the right to drink. Yes, a stack of them every day. So what? They all drink. And he has the right. Has it? And she will continue to lie to herself that it suits her, that he has money for drinks and cigarettes, but not for coffee for her. And he will continue to ignore his alcoholism.

She lied to herself that she was satisfied with his relationship with her mother. With my wife. With a friend, with whom they for some reason walk together naked in the sauna.

She lied to herself that she didn't want anything from him. That the main thing is that he is. Others, after all, do not have such happiness. And she has it. You have to see the positive in everything. In general, a spiritually developed woman should give with joy and gratitude. And not to think that she wants something for herself. And in no case feel anger, pain, discontent. It is not spiritual.

She lied, lied, lied …

So in lying to herself, 20 years passed imperceptibly and she died …

And he went to eat with my mother …

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To be continued…

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