2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Since childhood, I have heard the phrase "bring in the hem". And this was said by women with squeamish faces. And my mother often said that. How awful that it is for a woman the greatest shame - to work up her belly. And there are many more different epithets.
And so I think. If the sacred feminine principle, which gives the greatest miracle - Life, is called a belly and a shameful hem … What kind of female happiness and health can we even talk about ?!
Yes, it's scary. How? As it will be? What will happen next? And here, the one carrying the greatest value in the world - Life - needs only support.
I think "bring in the hem" is not a shame. It is not a shame to become a Mother. It is a shame to try to live "like everyone else", as it should be, to the delight of others, to endure unhealthy relationships and not change anything - this is really a shame.
And to give birth and bear responsibility is not a shame.
I think there is envy in every condemnation. The envy of those who cannot give birth, those who are afraid to make up their minds.
Each condemning person bears the burden of responsibility for the fact that by his condemnation he defiles the Great Sacrament - the birth of a new life. All this negativity falls on the shoulders of one mother. And through her it affects the child.
If we still want to someday come to a more or less healthy society, we must pull out the root - a disrespectful, categorically unacceptable attitude towards the Sacred Gift of Motherhood!
When the issue of feeding in a public place will not even be raised in society, but instead there will be places for feeding. Nowadays, smokers are given more honor than breastfeeding ones.
When the word "mother" will become obsolete in polyclinics. When not a single harsh word will be said in the delivery rooms … When will we finally begin to understand the word Humanity.
Just think … The most important condition for successful psychotherapy is love for the client. People pay money to professionals for love! Professionals have been learning this art for more than one five years! And as soon as it becomes where to live and what to eat, we all go to look for love. To live and love is what every person wants.
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