2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Why is a psychopath toxic?
Because he is not able to overestimate past experience and draw conclusions from it in order to change his relationships with others, mainly with close people. In addition, the psychopath lacks empathy. He evaluates a person through the prism of his perception, and in the perception of a psychopath, everyone who surrounds him is enemies. So how can a psychopath feel empathy for and support an enemy?
For example, a daughter is surprised, if not horrified, at the mother’s reaction to her illness.
In her words: “When I told my mother that I was sick, then instead of words of support I heard the following that“nobody needs you sick, and therefore I must take care of me.”I asked how she could say that, does she really have a drop of me Not sorry. To which the mother replied, "I'm not sorry for you, because you got married, left for another city and left me alone."
That is, a daughter who went to live in another city is regarded by a psychopathic mother as a traitor, an enemy. Most often, even their own children are considered by psychopaths as a serving appendage, a function. The saddest thing is that the psychopath almost never changes his views.
Living together with a psychopath is fraught with the development of psychosomatic and depressive disorders. Day after day, the psychopath will poison your self-esteem and mood.
So, for example, a psychopathic father, in order to win his daughter over to his side in a conflict with his wife, inspires her that her mother does not love her and wanted to abandon her in the hospital.
A psychopath, when he needs it, can easily gain confidence, put on the mask of a loving person and for a moment surround you with the warmth and care that you need so much. But very soon he lets you know it's time to pay the bills.
For example, a husband, in exchange for his concern for his wife, demands that she stop communicating with her relatives, quit her job and devote her life entirely to serving his interests. Thus, he establishes total control over her, cutting off all her past connections, and makes her completely dependent on himself.
The daughter, who once broke off relations with her sadistic father, many years later meets with him in the hope that he has changed, rethought something. But during communication with her father, she realizes that this person has remained the same - all the same poisonous anger inside and stinging remarks.
It must be understood that the psychopath does not change in the vast majority of cases. He does not forgive insults and to the end blames you for all his failures in life, not realizing that the root of evil is in himself, and not in others.
For a psychopath, another person is food that he will soon drink into small pieces, season with spices and eat.
Can you forgive a psychopath?
Real forgiveness means that there are no barriers to communication between you and the forgiven person, but you understand that it is impossible to build constructive communication with a psychopath, and therefore you continue not to answer his calls and messages on social networks. Is this real forgiveness? I think not.
If you realize that communication with a psychopath is bad for you, destroying your self-esteem, plunging into depression, destroying your family, you have every right to protect yourself from contact with him and not feel remorse.
Author: Burkova Elena Viktorovna
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