2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Yes, now the fashionable topic is "forgive".
Yourself, husband, children, parents, bosses, moral monsters, scoundrels who have harmed you.
The position “you have the right not to forgive” is not even considered. And it immediately causes horror. To be different is to become bad. Become condemned and criticized.
As a result, a person falls into a trap. Into a web of manipulation, which is even more addictive.
Why do you want to ask for forgiveness?
Man lives in wine. Unbearable and corrosive. He feels guilty in front of someone and for something. It can be like borrowed wine. Nothing criminal has been done, but guilt haunts. So is the primary one. When in reality you did something bad and you feel guilty.
The second option is the simplest one. This is where you have to be brave and apologize. Precisely in front of whom you feel guilty. Even if it's a small child. The relief comes immediately.
The first option is very difficult.
In this case, there is a lot of irritation in life, anger either towards oneself or for no reason.
I got angry with my parents and immediately felt guilty. I got angry with the children and immediately felt guilty. And so on ad infinitum. After all, you can't get angry! Whoever gets angry is bad!
How then does the person act? Begins to displace guilt, to exclude from his life. The best way to ignore is through forgiveness rituals.
Instead of figuring out yourself and your strategies. Realize the impact of guilt on yourself and your life. Deal with the cause of this guilt. Identify the triggers that support it. Understand that guilt is a colossal anger towards yourself! Which launches a self-destructive program. Self-destruction through illness and psychosomatics, destructive behavior and chronic conflicts.
A person grabs the simplest option.
About which only the lazy does not shout.
Forgive everyone. Here's a simple algorithm. Here is the ritual. Bow to the family and forgive. Write a letter and I'm sorry. Visualize and forgive. Goodbye to everyone and always.
Don't face your anger. There is no need to look for the reasons for the guilt. There is no need to analyze what keeps guilt in a person's soul for so long. Simply and easily!
What do you think of forgiveness rituals? Write your opinion.
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