2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-12 20:57
After reading the comments under the previous article, I came across the opinion that now it is as if men are uncomfortable and even ashamed to admit that he had no experience in sex yet. And that is why they are so eager to get this experience in all possible and not possible ways.
So, it turns out that being a man without a "run" is bad, but for a girl, for example, it is good and even commendable, is that so? Although there will be those who will still say: "Why hasn't this girl had sex before? Nobody wanted her? And why should I want to? After all, there must be something wrong with her." So it is about men who have not yet received sexual experience, and, regardless of their age, they also begin to think that something is definitely wrong with him.
But in fact, not having experience in this matter is neither good nor bad, it is just the way it is at the moment. This experience can always be obtained, if desired, but not everyone wants to do it with just anyone, and men, although it is not generally accepted, can also wait for some special girl who will really hook something in their souls and only then he will enter into an intimate relationship with her.
It's just that this view is not popular. That is, for some reason it is believed that a "real man" should want to sleep with almost every woman who just winks at him, and if this is not so and he really wants a serious relationship with his beloved woman, then this is somehow strange. But just think about how wild it sounds
No one has the right to judge, label, and decide what is good and bad for you. What is permissible and what is not. You are a "real" man or not. This is all complete nonsense! Believe me, it is not the presence or absence of experience in sex that makes you a man, but completely different things
And not in that, whether he has a "run" with a bunch of different women or not, and it means "something is definitely wrong with him." Forget it once and for all. After all, you can learn everything along with the one with whom you feel good even without sex. So be yourself and respect yourself. This is already enough. Good luck to you!
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