2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Children Protection Day.
You will not have to protect your children from anything if you always remember that you were just born a few years before them.
If you remember that the child is not your property. He just came into this World through you.
If you speak the language of love, acceptance, then there will be no one to protect from.
Look, look at those who have done this at least once:
- hit the child, no matter joking, loving, or whatever.
- called (fool, clumsy, unlucky, etc.)
- gave an assessment to the future child (but what will come of you, you will be a janitor, no one will love you, will not marry you, etc.)
- compared with others (but Aunt Glasha's daughter is obedient, but Vadik from the next doorway pulls up 10 times, etc.)
- violated the boundaries of the child (you are not reading what you are reading, your hobbies are abnormal, give up your illusions and return to the real world, stop fantasizing, with whom you slept, etc.)
It is necessary to protect children from you. It sounds ridiculous, but often the only ones to protect children from are their parents.
Wake up who is still asleep. Children are people. And it depends on you what they will be. If you hit him, it hurts, but you hit yourself first and see how you feel, how are you? How do you like it, when your dreams are cut at the root, when I belittle you and tell you that Sveta's mother is better than you, etc.
Learn to love yourself first. Not knowing how to love yourself, do not think that you know how to love children. The way we treat ourselves, we also do with others, but we also give permission for others to do this to us. If you reproach yourself, insult yourself, accuse yourself, then do not be surprised what others will do with your child too.
If you love children, then there is no one to protect them from. If everyone remembers that there are no other people's children, then there is no one to protect them from.
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