2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I know very well what horror sexual harassment can bring to a child and what consequences it can have.
I am also well aware that most people who have anxiety about the possible sexual abuse of their children are based on the frightening reality that they have had to face.
I also know that predators choose the weakest, most vulnerable prey. Any predator is looking for the weakest prey; this is another aspect of biology.
To keep children safe, we must form healthy relationships and connections with others. We must be accessible to children, open to their worries and fears, attentive to their needs, respect their opinions and desires.
Our children need to make sure that we care and respect what they say. Parents should hug their children so that they do not fall prey to the desire to satisfy the natural human need for the touch of warm human hands.
To keep children safe, you should not send your young children to go to their grandmother through the forest, leave them under the supervision of strangers, or allow single adults to touch children without supervision.
You shouldn't be very happy if your child is very obedient. It is obedient children who most often become victims of sexual harassment by adults. Such children are accustomed to obeying adults, considering those indisputable authorities, whose will they cannot contradict.
Adults who intend to sexually abuse a child can easily identify those children who are unloved, deprived of the attention of loved ones, frightened, or used to endure abuse.
Our best wishes, alas, do not always correspond to reality. There are many more deep sexual deviations than it might seem. Sex is the realm where man and nature meet, where morality and good intentions yield to primal impulses. The rapist seeks to wrest victory from his fiasco by using the weak and defenseless.
You should talk with your children more often, pay attention to their mood, to a sudden change in state. Carefully investigate the reason why, for example, the son no longer wants to go to an elderly neighbor, with whom he previously enjoyed playing chess. Reasonable vigilance will not harm, and parenting is a great responsibility, it is, to a certain extent, a loss of carelessness, an increase in vigilance, attentiveness, intuition.
Protect your children - with your attentiveness, love, reasonable vigilance and skillful, intelligent conversations with your child.
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