Illegitimate Children. Illegitimate Fathers. The Problem Of The 21st Century. How Family Rules Are Destroyed

Video: Illegitimate Children. Illegitimate Fathers. The Problem Of The 21st Century. How Family Rules Are Destroyed

Video: Illegitimate Children. Illegitimate Fathers. The Problem Of The 21st Century. How Family Rules Are Destroyed
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Illegitimate Children. Illegitimate Fathers. The Problem Of The 21st Century. How Family Rules Are Destroyed
Illegitimate Children. Illegitimate Fathers. The Problem Of The 21st Century. How Family Rules Are Destroyed
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Illegitimate fathers

All children are just children!

No illegitimate children

there are illegitimate fathers!

Illegitimate fathers.

Most men plan their relationship with their mistresses as temporary. They just don't know what women are capable of and how they know how to tie to themselves. Realizing that he is in love, the man himself is no longer able to part with his mistress. But he also cannot abandon his wife and children. Such men can be at the point of love balance for years. This is how parallel informal families arise.

To win, mistresses become pregnant. And illegitimate children come into the world … These boys and girls love their dads very much, but they rarely see them. After all, most of these fathers remain in legal marriages. And many of them don't even pay child support …

As a family psychologist, I often communicate with children born out of wedlock. Small and already adults who have created their own families. The pain of uselessness, left over from childhood without a dad, remains with many forever. Only loyalty, honesty and love can heal this pain. Loyalty to your family, when there are no mistresses and lovers, there is no secret procreation. Fidelity to those illegitimate children who have already been born. When dads honestly tell their wife about the illegitimate child, they ask her for forgiveness and the opportunity to communicate with the baby, to provide financial assistance. And they also honestly stop intimacy with their mistresses, without creating empty hopes in them.

Wise wives will accept the repentance of their husbands who have stumbled, families will remain and all children will communicate with their fathers. With legal and - illegitimate! Because, I am sure: not children are illegitimate, but their fathers! Children cannot choose how, when and from whom they are born. There is no demand from them. But adults can do it all! Therefore, it is very important that adults behave like adults. And they loved all children equally! Because love brings children into this world and it should always be with them!

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