LOVE OR DEPENDENCE?

Video: LOVE OR DEPENDENCE?

Video: LOVE OR DEPENDENCE?
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LOVE OR DEPENDENCE?
LOVE OR DEPENDENCE?
Anonim

We often confuse these concepts, don't we?:)

Where can we talk about love, and where - already about love addiction (or codependency)? I love? Or am I - dependent on the person? What is the difference and how to tell?

Love gives.

Love addiction - borrows.

Love fills.

Love addiction - drains, drains.

Love evokes feelings of gratitude, appreciation.

Love addiction demands, makes claims.

If a loved one is absent, then the feeling of joy and happiness does not leave.

Without an object of dependence, a person experiences suffering, longing, bitterness, thirst.

Love is when you wish your loved one happiness, regardless of whether he will be with you or this happiness will be with someone else.

Love addiction sees the happiness of a partner ONLY next to itself.

Love is calm, wise.

Love addiction is violent, angry, passionate.

Love is a manifestation of joy, interest.

Love addiction raises feelings such as jealousy, resentment, envy.

Love lets go.

Love addiction wants to restrain, binds.

Love leaves freedom.

Love addiction is limiting.

Love makes you want to take care of a person.

Love addiction seeks to receive care and attention.

In love, man more and more acquires his value.

In love addiction, self-worth is lost.

Love preserves the boundaries of the personality.

In love addiction, a person dissolves in a partner.

Love wants to bestow.

Love addiction wants to receive.

Love does not hold offense, love forgives.

Love addiction requires compensation for unjustified expectations, retribution, in extreme cases - revenge.

Love is the desire to see a person happy.

Love addiction is the thirst for possession.

When we first fall in love, we feel passionate. Over time, falling in love either develops into love, or into love addiction.

Love is rare! In order to love, two components are necessary: the fullness of unconditional love for oneself and awareness. It is believed that a person learns love from the age of 30 on average, because until this age he is only filled with love by himself (first from his parents, then from his partners). The less a person received love in childhood, the longer he will learn to love (if he wishes, of course!).

I would like to say that learning to love is worth it, because it is a blissful, filling feeling. The first step on this path is to see how you are feeling now. This is Love? Or is it a love addiction?

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