2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
A generation of men raised by tough, cold and detached mothers who were sincerely confident about the benefits of such, for the sake of society, upbringing in their children:
- independence acquired as a result of abandonment and fear of loneliness, - initiative, which appeared as a result of intolerance to situations of uncertainty, - openness and sociability, combined with the ability to keep one's emotions to oneself, "not to limp and not show" - which in fact are powerful violations of both personality boundaries and attachment and basic trust in the world.
These boys (and at the same time girls), raised by the example of Zoya Kosmodemyanskaya and Pavlik Morozov, formed a powerful request to the community of psychologists and other "psychologists" for urgent "making new and reformatting old" ideals of the Woman. Such, against the background of which they would finally feel their masculinity and efficiency (and the girls could finally relax in the illusion that besides them someone else would be raking this whole mess):
- it was they who wanted Beregin, Vedic virgins who do not stick their noses beyond the spinning wheel and a vat of dough, safely asexual due to uninterrupted childbirth, socially and financially dependent on their husband;
- they wanted mentally and socially incapacitated (at the same time calling them weak and defenseless), gentle and affectionate (with a complete lack of criticism and overwhelming unconditional acceptance, everything he does is happiness) and sexually hypertrophied, with an inverted upper lip that evokes associations. with a toothless baby (no one was frightened by these pedophilic standards of beauty), either with a victim of hard sex, with a mouth, or bitten, or struck …
- they wanted smart rag-women, easily chirping about the easy, and a lot about cooking, permanently cheerful, thin and finding positive in everything, doing well with pies and with children, and at the same time dancing and singing.. straight to VDNKh, not girls))))
And there are no claims to anyone, because we - rushed to give, and they - wanted not just like that, but for some particular need … in search of compensation, namely MOM - good, kind, supportive, loving, caring, home … which in childhood was not.. many of us. And they, our mothers, are not to blame, because they were convinced that it was necessary.
BUT!
So they got them, and what next?
And then - there will be good ratings and commercial content for those psychologists who will now sit down to write training programs for "true femininity", because the trend has changed, and now it should be:
- intellectually burdened, - information-savvy, tech-savvy, - financially at least independent, if not successful, - socially stable and protected, - emotionally stable and self-sufficient, - sexually fulfilled and satisfied, - physically developed and active, non-standard appearance has advantages …
And I like this trend)))) because I want a PAIRING relationship, not a parent-child relationship))))
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