2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The fact that you like yourself makes you more attractive in the eyes of others. When you love yourself, life becomes less burdensome and relationships are easier and more spontaneous. You don't waste time thinking about what others think of you.
With inner strength, you can easily adapt to the inevitable ups and downs in any relationship.
Below are 5 things you need to be more attractive in any relationship.
1. Don't take yourself too seriously
You can be less than perfect and still have a strong relationship and the love of your life. Voluntarily or involuntarily, demonstrating your imperfection to others, you create an intimate atmosphere, in the sense that people feel more free to communicate with you, because you were open and free with them.
It is important to make sure you enter into relationships with supportive and non-toxic people.
Often negative ratings significant the people they give you define your character. When faced with constructive or non-constructive criticism, first of all, look for opportunities to laugh at yourself. Do not give importance to other people's disparaging opinions, other people do not define you and it does not matter what they say.
- Sarochka! You just look great today!
- Ha! I still feel bad!
2. Do the right thing in any case
If you have low self-esteem, chances are that you will seek approval from others. Doing something, expecting acceptance, you can be wrong, because you do not see the big picture, focusing on yourself and your desire to get approval.
A fussy search for approval in other people's eyes is also repulsive, since it is a sign of insecurity.
Instead, do what you think is right for yourself, others, and society at large. Be generous to the people in your life and those in need - listen, support, pay attention. And you will see this is what brings acceptance and approval.
- Syoma, you know, when you are not, they say that about you!
- I beg of you! Tell them: when I am not, they can even beat me!
3. Live for yourself
People with a sense of purpose and meaning always look more convincing because they exude strength. The process of observing how highly or not highly others value your life is just a waste of time, which is best used to achieve what you want to get out of life.
Ask yourself what makes you happy? What would you like to achieve in your life? What gives you a sense of well-being and fulfillment? Turn off the voice in your head that talks about the topic, so it would be if it were different. Live for yourself.
- Rabinovich! I heard you became impotent. Well, how do you like it?
- To be honest? Like a mountain off your shoulders!
4. Choose to be happy
When you are happy, others feel it and feel comfortable in your presence. One way to choose to be happy is to recognize your inner critic (his voice in your head actively comments on all your actions and judges you). To accept his judgments about himself is like jumping off a cliff into nothingness. He will easily knock you over, if only you will allow. It is entirely your responsibility to recognize his voice and stop his judgment by switching to reading, fitness, helping others, work or creative activity. Do what works for you, but close your mouth as quickly as you can. Do this over and over, choose to be happy.
- Hello! Abrasha? Hey! How many years! Well, how's life?
- Just great.
- Amazing? Sorry, I probably got to the wrong place.
5. Take care of yourself
Self-care people are more attractive because they radiate the power of self-discipline.
If you take care of yourself, others do not need to shoulder the burden of caring for you. Adequate nutrition, exercise and attention to your mental health and emotional state should become part of your daily routine.
- Haim, I heard - you are getting married!
- Yes, yes!
- And how is your future wife?
- Oh, how many people, so many opinions. Mom likes it, I don’t.
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