2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
“How to become self-confident and not be embarrassed or nervous to start a conversation first?”
Confidence is a subjective thing.
This is more our inner feeling. We all know the feeling when you are confident and know that everything will work out. But that's not always the case, right?
What to do when you want to be more confident in yourself?
Ask yourself the question: what is stopping you?
Why don't you allow yourself and don't believe in yourself?
Also, I have to ask you: If you don't believe yourself, then why should others believe?
Getting to know another person without being shy and looking more confident requires a simple thing. Practice. With practice, a survey appears and self-confidence appears.
The more you get to know, communicate with someone, then you will leave the comfort zone of your life and each time it will be easier for you. And you will be more confident.
There is no other way. It does not happen that today you are not confident in yourself and it is difficult for you to start the first conversation, but tomorrow you woke up and everything worked out. Just constantly trying to communicate with people.
This will give you significant experience in both communication and self-confidence. Nothing bad will happen if you start the conversation first. Look!) None of you will laugh, despise. Because every person understands that you need courage and self-confidence.
Of course, everyone is nervous. And that's okay. There is nothing wrong with that. You will be understood if you are worried. Nobody will blame you. Just treat lighter as simple swing. Do not attach such a global significance. And it will become much easier for you.
Work out at home, in front of a mirror, record yourself on camera, ask friends to help you. If this does not help, come up with your own image for training)
Practice will greatly reduce your self-doubt. Each time it will be much easier and more interesting. And the result will not keep you waiting!
This is a great opportunity to do what you want in your life. Be sincere with yourself. And saturate your life!
I wish you confidence and worry less!
Zhuravleva Anastasia
Psychologist, Emotion Specialist, Consultant
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