2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Recently, we have often heard complaints from women about their relationships with their husbands
The main complaints are instability at work, which leads to material problems, followed by them, lack of attention from a loved one, irritation, the husband loses all interest in anything, etc. This can be due to many reasons, for example, the manifestation of depression, or just a difficult period in a man's life
Women, in turn, begin to get nervous, take offense, some roll up scandals in order to supposedly improve relations. In a word, they become not support for their husband in a difficult period for him, but a tyrant. And then they don't understand why the husband grabs a glass or just runs out of the house to his friends.
Here are 3 basic rules to help you get through a tough time in your life
1) No scandals
Why blame and blame your man for what he already feels so bad without it? The fact that you will demonstrate your dissatisfaction with the current situation, you only escalate the situation. Be more tolerant. Try to get into the position of your husband. During such a period, support and understanding are important, not shouts and reproaches.
2) Less talk
Women love to talk and this is a well-known fact. Well, if your man is bad and he is silent, then you need to pull all the information out of him by any means. Point the light bulb in your face and ask millions of questions until the situation clears up for you. Stop!!! Do not do this. From your verbosity, a man, in such a period when the whole world is not the world, wants to fall through the earth.
Better show concern with a short "How was your day?" or if you are not around, send an affectionate sms. Make it clear to the man that you are with him and are ready to support him in any situation.
3) Praise your man
If you really love a man, if you really care about him and worry about your relationship, give him "food" to move forward.
Yes, he has a difficult period, but he does not pay attention, but he is irritable, etc. And it is at such moments that words of support and approval are needed, so that there would be strength for what to live and move on. Even if, at first glance, it seems that there is nothing to praise for, tell him “Thank you so much for being in my life!
Happiness and love to your relationship!
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