2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
In most cases, men are quite calm about all sorts of women's mistakes, checks and other things. But there are situations when a man suddenly becomes adamant and does not forgive a woman. This happens even in those cases when, it would seem, the relationship was great and the partner did some, from her point of view, the usual action, and the partner's reaction came as a surprise to her.
Some women in such cases begin to talk about the infantilism of the former chosen one. That, in their opinion, he was not in the mood for a serious relationship from the very beginning. Also, you can hear that the man did not pass some kind of test. Quite often, this test means a woman's desire to make a drama. Observe how he will react to some of her actions (scenes of jealousy, attempts to leave for fictitious reasons, tantrums on any topic), which seem quite normal to a woman. And this "weakling" escaped and does not want to communicate. Accordingly, it is concluded that this is simply not the man who deserves to be near such a woman.
In fact, everything is much more complicated. It's all about the same banal difference between a man and a woman. And you can't go against nature!
Men throughout their lives build their own individual system of rules. Each has its own characteristics and tolerances. This applies not only to relationships with others, but also with a woman too. For one, hitting his wife is quite normal, while the other will never raise his hand against a woman. These same rules are a kind of compass for men in relationships with the fair sex. For a man, it is his own opinion about what he can afford in relation to a woman that is decisive. Besides, and it is very important that he can afford to his woman. Both in relation to the world and in relation to oneself. A kind of plinth below which a man cannot go down.
In those cases when a woman begins to violate this lower boundary, and to do this purposefully, the man does not forgive her. Otherwise, he will lose respect for himself. The loss of self-respect for a man is not only painful, but destructive. Therefore, he leaves the relationship in order to save himself.
Relationships presuppose an attentive and careful attitude towards each other, and, in my opinion, should not be neglected.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.
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