Why Don't Men Meet Me On The Street And In Public Places? Why Men Don't Come Up To You On The Street

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Why don't men meet me on the street and in public places? Why don't men come up to you on the street? One of the most frequent questions to a relationship expert from girls is: “Why don't men meet me on the street and in public places? On the street, at some events or concerts, in parks, in shopping and entertainment centers, in the office, etc. What's wrong with me? I will give a clear answer to this. Over the decades of my practice, working with men, I was always interested in what stops them from meeting a pretty stranger.

From here, a list of ten typical mistakes of girls in their self-presentation was formed.

To improve your personal life, I share them with you. There he is:

• 1. The dignity of the girl's figure is not emphasized.
• 2. Not well-groomed hair.
• 3. Missing makeup and / or jewelry.
• 4. The girl is not dressed brightly.
• 5. The girl does not walk alone, she is with her friend all the time.
• 6. The girl is always in a hurry.
• 7. The girl does not look around, does not meet the eyes of men.
• 8. The girl does not smile, is too serious.
• 9. The girl speaks harshly or rudely.
• 10. The girl does not know the secrets of feminine behavior.

Now I will briefly decipher this. Why don't men meet me on the street and in public places? - because….

1. The dignity of the girl's figure is not emphasized. Before seeing the depth of a girl's personality and the breadth of her soul, men are first attracted to her figure. Therefore, it is important to emphasize its advantages and hide the disadvantages. Men like first of all: thin waist; narrow shoulders; elongated graceful neck; elastic buttocks; shaped bust; long slender legs; straight back with good posture; prominent clavicle; slim stomach. Therefore, it is very important to visually highlight all these elements of the female image. Including: wearing fitted clothing and turtlenecks (lengthen the neck and emphasize the chest); more often wear dresses, midi-skirts just above the knee, shorts; use pleats on the skirt and peplum to increase the hips or pencil pants to narrow; wear leather clothing, especially trousers; overestimate or underestimate the waist; use belts of a bright color; wear short jackets and down jackets; in general, try to wear clothes in size or even a little back to back; use push-ups; light classic shoes, ankle boots and ankle boots, graceful sneakers on a high platform; tapered boots; interesting tights colors; various leggings, etc.

2. Not well-groomed hair. Men love long hair and styled haircuts, curls and straight hair; the effect of wet hair and any options for braiding. The main thing is to make it clear that the girl pays great attention to her hair, takes good care of them. Dyed bright blondes and brunettes are traditionally more noticeable to the male eye than girls with natural light or dark blond hair color. Since most men are conservative, unusual hair color is more likely to deter men than attract men. A girl who walks out into a public place with her hair washed and styled usually gets more attention than one who just has it in a bun.

3. Missing makeup and / or jewelry. Makeup doesn't have to be ultra-bright, but it does have to be noticeable. After all, seeing a girl without makeup, a man usually thinks that she already clearly lacks a motive for attracting attention to herself, and therefore considers her married. In makeup, the main thing is to highlight the cheekbones with blush and lipstick to create the effect of bright, large and slightly moist lips. Therefore, glossy lipstick and lip gloss are better than matte shades.

As for jewelry, in the opinion of men, they create an attractive image of a "girl-girl". Jewelry should be bright, noticeable, graceful and not massive. Classic set: thin rings on each hand, obligatory bracelet, pendant high on the neck (above the chest level), noticeable earrings in fashion. All this should always be on a girl who has gone public.

4. The girl is not dressed brightly. Going out into people, it is easy to be ignored if the clothes are of dull colors: gray, brown, variegated, beige, cream, peach, light green. Or cold: lilac, blue, green, etc. Of course, if a girl is over 180 cm tall or has an ideal figure, she will be considered in any way. However, if a girl has the usual figure parameters, men are guaranteed to notice her only in clothes of seven colors: white, black, yellow, red, pink, turquoise and catchy options such as mint-lime. Combinations are also possible when the top and bottom are of different colors, but only from this maximum winning list.

5. The girl does not walk alone, she is with her friend all the time. If a girl is never left alone, she scares away those men who are embarrassed to approach and meet in the presence of strangers. That is why the options work great when a girl stands alone at a bus stop, sits at a table in a cafe or office-factory canteen, walks alone on the street, sits alone at the airport, sunbathes alone on the grass in the park or on the beach; engaged in the gym, etc. Seeing a man you are interested in, create optimal conditions for him to come up with your loneliness. And then your loneliness will end …

6. The girl is always in a hurry. When a girl moves somewhere with a brisk gait or pretends that she is looking for something or someone, the man assumes that she is very busy and is clearly not in the mood for communication and acquaintance. Therefore, wishing to arrange your personal life, it is advisable to go out into the public space, always having a reserve of time - half an hour, or better - an hour. Walking slowly back and forth along the street, park or shopping mall, the girl clearly informs the man that she has time for dialogue, and therefore motivates him to make an attempt.

7. The girl does not look around, does not meet the eyes of men. A girl who walks or sits with her head down or being fully occupied with her smartphone does not allow a man to form his complex image of a beautiful stranger. Plus, a man perceives this behavior as a direct message to everyone around him: "I'm busy, so don't distract me!" Therefore, he is afraid of being rejected and hesitates. From here, walking or sitting somewhere, it is important for a girl to either frankly consider those around her, or periodically raise her eyes and look interesting men in the eyes. This immediately attracts men, makes them feel that the girl has chosen him, motivates them to come up. I say this:

Do you want to start dating men? Start meeting their eyes!

Men admit that girls who boldly look a man in the eyes seem especially sexy to them. And they strive to test this in practice.

8. The girl does not smile, is too serious. It has long been known: "The most powerful weapon of a girl is her smile." Especially if the girl smiles with a so-called open smile, that is, showing her teeth. A girl without a smile is perceived by men as depressed or prone to boredom or tantrums. Remember: Princess Nesmeyana got married only because she was a princess and had a corresponding dowry. It is much more difficult for ordinary girls without a smile to get married. As well as to keep the husband afterwards. Therefore, a girl who, in a public place or just smiles at something, looking around, or smiles sweetly while talking on the phone, will always be in the zone of increased male attention.

9. The girl speaks harshly or rudely. Men often share: “I see a beautiful girl. I come closer to her. Suddenly I hear her talking rudely to someone on the phone, or arguing with a salesman, a waiter or someone else. And immediately all the passion for personal contact disappears … I don't want to be sent away. And I don’t want to communicate with a rude person or a Chalda either!” Therefore, it is important for a girl to be able to speak sweetly, pleasantly and with a well-delivered soft voice. Moreover, when talking to someone on the phone in a public place in an insinuating, gentle voice, with a sense of humor, she will inevitably attract the attention of even those men who have not previously considered the dignity of her figure. And the very kindness in the voice will provide contact.

10. The girl does not know the secrets of feminine behavior. Usually, men do not immediately run to get to know a girl, but watch her a little. Some typical female actions, which men evaluate as "flirtatious", "charming", "cute", "seductive", "playful" (etc.) very seriously invigorate men. For example: pull up your pantyhose by shaking your legs in a funny way; to pull up stockings, skirt or trousers in an erotic way; not just a net cross-legged, but twine one leg around a friend; sit with a beautiful half-turn to a man; regularly look in the mirror (or phone) and tint the lips; regularly correct your hair or hairpin; weave a braid; curl a lock of hair on your finger; bite gently on the sponge; raise the elbows of the hands high, focusing on the raised bust; sitting in a cafe, play with a shoe with a foot; twist a bracelet, necklace or beads in your hand; it is indicative to take a selfie (you can even ask the man you like to take a photo of you); gently touch your fingers to the shoulder of even a stranger when communicating, etc. These and many other ritualistic feminine techniques have worked flawlessly on men for centuries. Therefore, I recommend them to learn.

Considering all of the listed female tricks and nuances of self-presentation, you can easily increase your chances of meeting an interesting man in public. And you will not be upset watching how they meet someone else in front of your eyes, and you will never ask such a question as why they don’t get to know me.