2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
This time the thought is not so crazy, but bright. So that's it. Nobody in their right mind wants to step into shit (sorry) At the very least, it does not smell inspired and does not let itself be forgotten to the last. Of course, this is fixable and such a suddenness happened to many. But so that I deliberately and specifically look for him and happily dive ankle-deep - I have never met such people
Where, then, is this dislike for stool in everyday life? For example, you went to the doctor. Well, I don't know, to a surgeon or a traumatologist. With a complaint of systematic aching pain in the shoulder and knee. And instead of MRI and other examinations, you are sent to a homeopathic pharmacy to drink tinctures from tinctures, because it is much more useful than any aspirin and any harmful antibiotics. After two weeks, you realize that it’s not getting better, you learn to tie the shoelaces with one hand, because the other simply doesn’t move without acute pain. And then you are taken right from work by the affectionate hands of the ambulance workers, who were called by colleagues when your joint shamelessly fell out while trying to put the vase on the top shelf. The operation, of course, was done for you, and you are glad that you survived at all, because "it's good, at least so, get out, Lyokha is from the neighboring country in general with complications under droppers after the prescribed treatment."
Or so. You met, he gave you flowers, introduced you to your flatmate. And then - rrrraz! - bounced your face against the wall, because at work he was tired and it seemed to him that you were flirting with the taxi driver. You, of course, cry, but after a bouquet of your favorite flowers and coffee with crumpets in the morning you say: "it doesn't happen to anyone." Then you get one more time with not field daisies in the face, because he drank and remembered how in a photograph of five years ago you are dancing on the bar counter. Or for oversalting the chicken. Or that she didn’t read the book he recommended. But for some reason you do not call this situation crap (sorry) and do not leave, but understandably call it "temporary difficulties" and stay. Because how is he without you and a bunch of explanations.
So that's it. I have never seen a person who, consciously, with knowledge of the matter and understanding of all the consequences, truly loved to engage in different-sized shit (sorry). As a rule, any sexually mature (and not so) organism cheerfully bypasses each new fragrant heap after the first acquaintance with it. Why, well, why do we enter into a similar substance with such joy in our everyday everyday life?
Because in childhood you were taught not to argue with adults? Because parents always knew "better" and this is the sacramental "shut your mouth and eat!" became defining? Do not know. I don’t know if there are any definite answers. But this belief to others, and not to oneself, remains decisive here. When the conventional other becomes (or remains) more important - yourself.
Here is a young pretty girl enters into a relationship with a despotic man who prohibits almost everything and controls every third breath of a man. Why does her internal sense of smell lays down after the first signs of verbal stench? Because he says that is what "care" and "attention" looks like. Why does she believe him, and not herself, when he crucifies her three times a week for the wrong word and "wrong" feelings? For many reasons and because he does not know how to believe himself. Or simply does not know that this is possible.
Getting around troubles on the sidewalk is much easier than in everyday life. Not that I urged you to smell at every breath of the verbal breeze.. Rather, I want to have a free breathing heart if a verbal-fecal typhoon occurs on the way
In general, take care of yourself.
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