To Be Lazy To Work

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Today I am not inclined to talk in the direction of combining pagan symbols and Christianity, otherwise I would definitely walk through the red "Easter" eggs, painted with pagan female blood, and examined the May Pole in more detail. Maybe after …

Now the conversation will be about a more modern contradiction. Labor Day vacation. Everyone was laughing at this factor. From the screen comedians and so on. Well, actually … if we think about it … Throughout the year we have been talking about "we ought to work on ourselves." Listen again. WOULD be necessary. WOULD work. Do you want? It is clear, no…. Why would you (all of us) want to Work?

Yes, you can bring in Zadornov or other linguists who will tell us that Ra and Botat is something very bright there. However, the collective unconscious may be keeping this memory, but as they say, "somewhere very deep." And on the surface of consciousness…. what is there? Let's remember.

I invite you all to remember your golden childhood. All week I (even and honestly) invited people to remember their childhood. On duty. She worked in various firms with motivation. NOT just "for work" to achieve success. From year to year on MAY one picture. The further into the forest, the third is extra, oh…. No! The closer May, the less desire to work. EVERYONE HAS! including AND business owners. Such a craze on Labor Day. To be lazy, that is, to have a rest.

So, in connection with this (May, Labor Day, in the spring), I suggested that all employees recall their childhood. So I can imagine the reaction of many readers to my question: "What is the main reward for a Schoolboy?"

Answer number 1: "Five" (Guess?)

Question number two: "What if the lessons are canceled?"

Answer number….two…. ZERO !: "BOBOLEILO !!!!"; "YESSSS!"; "AAAA !!!!", "CLASSSS !!!" "SUPER!!!".

Well, how?))) Did you recognize a drop of yourself?

So that's what I mean…. That in our childhood we were NOT taught to love learning. The reward for the studies was the weekend. Idleness, so to speak. Think: Reward! It is important! Since rest is important, without a doubt, workaholism is as dangerous as a disease, but rest from study as a reward For study … But there is no cognitive dissonance, right?

We were waiting for the vacation, I confirm, we were glad that lessons were canceled, for example, because of the cold, we heard from mom-dad that “studying is your job”, they heard about their (adults) work that “who told you that work should be interesting, it is a duty, it is necessary, it means it is necessary, if there will be a vacation, then we will live,”and so on, I quote the assessments I have encountered in practice.

We were not taught to Love school or work. We were taught to love relaxation. Not even rest, but NOT study and NOT work. I think most people understand the difference between leaving Moscow or leaving For Sochi. And now we are celebrating Labor Day with a massive booze and partying. And we think that's how it should be. Where does this lead? Besides, saying the words “work on yourself”, most people experience an attack of nausea, just like from suppressing their will. Although, it would seem, themselves, Themselves decided to Work on themselves.

What else does it lead to? Do you remember Easter (May Day for atheists) house cleaning? And this is a powerful word: MUST! And straight to DATE! And this time frame. Wash the windows in spite of the frost, so that by the first day it will be clean. Let your nose block, you must, then you must! Then we'll have a rest, for a holiday. Who works on holiday?

When we talk about motivation, especially about the motivation for achieving success, here, it seems, everyone and everyone is ready to "work" on themselves, for their own benefit. And it's the same with psychotherapy. Work on yourself - again for your own good. That's just…. That concept of "violence", more precisely, "rape by work" hangs in the minds of people.

Why am I writing about this? Forewarned - armed. All psychology (conscious), that is, working with consciousness, and not with the unconscious, is aimed at realizing the phenomenon. If I'm wrong, I hope my humanistic and existential colleagues will correct me, along with logo therapists.(Working with the unconscious also yields other benefits besides awareness). So, I am writing for awareness. For the personal, for the realization that forcing children (or households) to work out of hand (at your orders, including terms, methods, other regulations), you instill in them a hatred of work as a "obligation" and hard labor.

Now, remember yourself. Again. But already at an older age than at school. Girls, how many of you really love cleaning? Or did he clean up at least once "for luck", throwing out and throwing out (as you like) old rubbish from cabinets and cupboards, renewing life according to "feng shui" or on the advice of glossy magazines or psychologists? When you decide not to “work,” but to “make your life happy,” you leave with great joy, don't you ?! At a time when it is convenient for you. I wanted to. And not when you are being driven, forced. And they demand.

The whole "world" is in our heads. "If you think you can, or that you cannot, in both cases you are right." These words are attributed to Henry Ford, an uneducated but stubborn (stubborn) millionaire who started his business (his project, his dream) in his barn. By the light of the lamp that his wife was holding over his work. Did he have other values? Who knows … Maybe he made his life happy, and he became a millionaire quite by accident?)))