Life Is A Whirlwind In The Flow Of Entropy Or Everything Has An End

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

This is not an easy task for all of you. I hope you will take everything that I am writing now with the utmost seriousness. Just read and try not to just understand, but to believe. Although you all have known this fact for a long time already, it is not possible to put up with it. And so let's start, you will die …

You people who are reading this now will definitely die. It's very difficult to imagine, isn't it? Take a second and try to imagine nothingness. And How? You represent darkness and nothing else, everything is in black. But in fact, it will not exist either, there will be no shades, no colors a priori. Why am I convinced of this? Because there will be no one to perceive them.

Our great mind, a complex machine, whatever one may say, but it rejects this idea, it simply cannot comprehend the termination of its own existence and comes to the conclusion that it is impossible. Gives impulses, insists that you will live forever. But this is not the case.

Everything has a beginning and an end. For example: any movement slows down, hot water cools down, a light bulb, whatever it is, burns out. Life is a whirlwind in the flow of entropy. A complex chemical reaction that illuminates the darkness, and then, using energy and heat, dissipates, just like all of us.

Your body, each body is an incredibly amazing mechanism, from billions of interconnected fragile systems. The older a person gets, the more slowly each of them wears out and breaks down. Medicine of the 21st century is already quite progressive and doctors, one by one, can restore these failures each time. But one day there are a lot of breakdowns, and like a lined chain of dominoes, your joints, eyes, lungs, heart, kidneys, memory, your whole body will fail. Unfortunately, this is inevitable.

I understand, dear readers, how unpleasant this all sounds, but it is critically important for all of us to accept this fact. Otherwise, you risk wasting every second of your fleeting and precious life. And so I will repeat, and this time I ask you to believe me at all costs. You - yes, you - will die and in no way, nothing can change it.

After reading, I can assume someone is still thinking about what was written, but our favorite protection came.

Once I touched on this topic, I'll reveal in more detail - the concept of a defense mechanism was originally proposed by Sigmund Freud. His concept of a defense mechanism said that this happens when identification suggests unacceptable motives or thoughts for our ego, and the ego tries to avoid conscious awareness of anxious feelings or unpleasant urges. But in our modern psychology, the term "defense mechanism" is already used more widely, in order to refer to any behavioral pattern that people habitually use to protect themselves from unpleasant emotions such as shame, anger, guilt, fear.

When we accept that we will die sooner or later, a defensive mechanism is triggered. Since there are several types of them, it will be appropriate to write about them as well:

1. Projection - the act of projecting one's own unconscious feelings onto another object.
2. Refusal - refusal to admit an unpleasant truth or emotion.
3. Somatization - the transfer of negative feelings into physical symptoms.
4. Reaction formation - fulfillment of the complete opposite of their unconscious desires or thoughts.

I would imagine that most readers will be faced with two defensive reactions: rejection and projection. I mentioned the refusal at the beginning of the article, the projection - I think you shouldn't paint it, you can see everything in the comments.

There is another common problem. It is associated with the relationship between the patient and the doctor, since they often do not discuss what to do when the severity of the treatment outweighs the benefits of it. There is refers not only to serious illnesses, as some might think, but also to standard age-related “breakdowns”. What am I doing? To the fact that if you cannot talk frankly with a doctor about death, then you may end up not only being treated in vain, but this will not prolong your life in any way, but will only make your last days very painful.

In foreign medicine, there are consultants, for example, the famous Bad Hammes, he organized a program to help doctors so that they could correctly and correctly talk with patients about death.

Why is it so important to realize and think about death?

To drive away thoughts about death, not to think about it is comfortable, good, pleasant. But … And what should your loved ones do when it comes? It seems important to me to plan how you would like to be buried (burial in a coffin, cremation, natural burial)? Who will make the decision if it happens that you cannot do it yourself?

Therefore, everyone must decide for themselves, get together and take the time to talk to their family about their values, preferences and goals. So that they don't have to decide by guessing for you. Many people think my family knows me well and they know what I want. This is an understandable point of view. Many people really think so. Research has been carried out on this topic since 14-16, and the data are unambiguous. In those families in which they prefer not to talk about it, relatives make decisions no better than strangers, that is, at random. And for them, the decisions they make can be very, very difficult. Sometimes conflicts are so acute that relatives stop talking to each other.

Death will always be the most terrible loss. But it is still necessary to accept this fact. We are afraid of death and this is a fact, it will overtake us someday and this is also a fact, and the fact that only you decide how to use the time allotted to you is also an unambiguous fact.

Try not to hide this “terrible” thought in a deep corner of your “corridors”, but to realize, talk and live on, because time is priceless, live it as happily as possible, as you want it.