2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Waiting for Saturday is usually better than Saturday itself.
You close your eyes and mentally sit at a beautiful table with a glass of wine in hand.. or lie on a soft sofa, wrapped in a warm blanket, allowing yourself to watch a movie that you have not been able to see for so long, or even better! It would be all far away - to the sea! … or to nature … fry sausages, breathe the air … forest, frosty.
Well, who? Who interrupted such wonderful thoughts. I finally didn't want to work …
Because it is clear what will actually happen. You boil, panic, household chores, an ambulance in the form of a wife in an apron, who will kill herself, get nervous, but cook stewed fruit and borscht! And he will definitely rule in the household field, attracting all family members to this holiday of household chores!
"…Nice! And I read it somewhere, or they said on TV - joint household chores - greatly strengthen the relationship! Come on, you vacuum, and I'll rub the floors … But what are you doing! I told you - don't vacuum the cat! …"
Saturday evening. Both are tired, but obviously with "strength" in their relationship in the form of refraining from communicating with each other! Now you can definitely scatter in different corners and at least see what is happening in the country and in the world …
"Expensive! And how does family reading news on the day off about murders, robberies and violence also have a beneficial effect on our weekend?"
"Fool!" - The wife will surely mutter in response, cross her arms and go into another room. Take offense. Well, hang out with your friends on the phone. It's a little more fun to be offended …
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A weekend like this is familiar to many of us. I would like something to change with the arrival of the first winter weekend (except for the existence of a cat in the house). What's the recipe for a really fun weekend?
- Spend no more than 1 hour on household chores on Saturday and Sunday, or better - make taboo days on cooking, cleaning and other things, like “load the washing machine”, “unload the washing machine”, “oh, the laundry is dry - you can iron it !"
- Lighten the household load as much as possible where possible. For example, a simple trick, like washing dishes by each family member, will eliminate the need for one long "washing" of each plate. Well, or having a dishwasher and laying the dishes by each family member is your salvation! Believe me, there can be a lot of such tricks!
- Have a real time together! Arrange a walk along the street, park, play board games with the whole family. Well, if you do not have children, then the phrase "board games" can have a completely different idea! Although, I'm not at all about what you thought. Well, maybe just a drop!
- Arrange a competition within the family, a competition. For example, the best drawing - in which not only children, but also parents will participate. Although, if you don't have children yet … but oh well)
- Visit or invite guests to the house. And don't sigh so hard. Guests must carry the party. The time when guests were associated with a lavish feast is over! Order a pizza or just serve tea with jam, honey, cookies. The main thing is communication and that atmosphere of warmth and celebration that will come to your home or to the home of those to whom you have gathered.
- Don't mumble! In general, the weekend should be a small New Year (only without talik Olivier). Leave your bad thoughts, worries and experiences there, in everyday life. You may return to them on Monday, or maybe a weekend completely free from internal negative emotions will change your view of what you called a problem on Friday.
- Retire! For parents, the weekend should be a great opportunity to remember why moans can be heard from the bedroom.“Oh, it seems grandmother and grandfather missed it.. Guys! We are going to visit grandma and grandpa for a couple of hours!.. "(And again, do not mumble! tell with what passion you want to drag each other into bed? …
- And one more rule - no rules, schedules, regimes, schedules and everything else. It's a mini holiday! Celebrate to the fullest! Hey! Just take it easy with alcohol! The holiday should be cheerful, with a pleasant aftertaste and not a sad belch …
Good luck! Fun and Friday waiting for you and your family!
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