2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Queries of this kind are often encountered in counseling: "My husband says that we are not suitable in bed", "I have a weak sexual constitution, so my partner must also endure", "I have the right to cheat on her, since I am a hot man, and she no longer maybe "," We should get a divorce, as we have a different sex constitution, despite the fact that we love each other very much.
I thought you already understood that today we will talk about the sexual constitution, and how "unscrupulous" partners manipulate this moment with their soulmate.
What is the Sexual Constitution?
In the context of our article, these are our sexual capabilities. For people with a weak sexual constitution, one love making every two weeks is enough, and for people with a strong sexual constitution - at least every day. The same applies to pregnancy - the stronger the sexual constitution, the more chances of getting pregnant quickly.
Now we talked about physiology. Sometimes the desire or unwillingness to have sex is determined by grievances, personal traumatic events, but today is not about that.
Are couples doomed?
Couples with different sex constitutions can live happily ever after, and compensate for the difference in sexual appetites with additional caresses, oral sex and a bunch of options. But it is important that the couple is interested in this relationship, because only then are the partners ready to do each other well.
Manipulation
Often, due to the sexual ignorance of his partner (or for other reasons), the second partner begins to manipulate (especially brightly with couples of an experienced man-young girl who first entered into a relationship). In my practice, I met clients where one of the couples allowed himself to cheat, as if “protecting his wife from his strong desires,” and he doesn’t care if she didn’t want such care. In some cases, this was a reason for a divorce, since the relationship did not want to, but you need to somehow "excuse yourself", and honestly, the partner is not ready to say that the love has passed. There are also cases where the partner makes the second almost a slave in the household, because in another way he cannot be useful.
Friends, couples with different sexual constitutions can be happy both in love and in sex, but if there is a couple on their own, the attitude towards sex and manipulation is a reflection of the conflict. When playing with couples, we start from the sexual sphere, but often it all ends with experiences in a completely different area.
I wish you love for yourself and in partnership!
With love for your ailments, sexologist, psychosomatologist Tatyana Pavlenko.
P. S. We invite you to study under the program "Psychosomatics of Sexuality" in Kiev, Kharkov, Odessa and Lvov (questions in the drug).
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