2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Dislike.
I think that the central theme of a person's life is dislike, namely, the inability to love the other in oneself and oneself in the other. The constant feeling of rejection and all the actions that we take to satisfy this aching pain are just a tool in our recognition of the inability to love. When there is this “block” in the form of prohibition, shame, “impotence” in the form of impotence and non-excitability, or an internal container filled with fear or anger or something else, then we transform our ability to love, which we absolutely have, into something else, which manifests itself in the form of all kinds of protections. You can imagine what these people experience when they are deprived of the opportunity to be in love, or rather, what they experience in return, and this is really scary. It is as if everything that could be stolen of valuable was stolen from us and given in return something resembling this value, but this replacement infuriates us, it infuriates us greatly.
Much more often I hear the phrase from clients that they are not liked, and I myself could say that, and it's true. I believe in them and believe in myself, I believe in the feelings of despair and anger that appear at the moment of realizing the lack of love, and I believe in the protections that protect us from complete disintegration. The defenses protect us, and this is not sarcasm, this is reality. But at the same time, the shield does not give us the opportunity to look into our own eyes and see emptiness ringing with terror there. Who doesn't love whom ??? That is the question. And I no longer wonder "why?", I wonder "who am I then, since I do not love?" And we are already smoothly flowing from manifestation to essence. Our essence manifests itself in us through love as a universal energy that fills everything we create and ourselves. If I do not love, I do not manifest as I-true. But then how do I manifest in my dislike, except as I am false? Dislike makes me only a pitiful likeness of myself. And the whole sarcasm lies in the fact that our false manifestation seems to us more beautiful and closer than the true one, and this is me again about the defenses that protect us. Protections protect us by taking our perception to the shine of a diamond crown on our head or to the tragedy of our hopelessness, just to save us from real awareness of our true ability to love, that is, in fact, to be alive and live.
Dislike. This is a question and an answer at the same time. When a person says that he is not loved or that he does not love, he already answers the question about his life. But it is easier for us to get hung up on things that lead us away from ourselves to others and find out what is wrong with them. Dislike is not a diagnosis, it is the essence of life, this is who I am today, this is how much I am alive today. And I think that nothing can be done about this until we plunge into our inner space of emptiness and see our reflection there, which we do not love. Everyone decides for himself what to do with it next. Our dislike lives on the dark side of the moon, which is never seen, but which it certainly is.
Dislike is something exciting, it is an angel of love hurting us, shooting live ammunition, and we go towards it with a submissive smile on our face and with deep disappointment in our hearts. Dislike always pushes us to seek love, until the very last day of our life, and it also protects us from love, because love is what mercilessly makes us immortal. That is why we are so afraid of dying.
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