2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
For men, the main task from birth / the rule of the first day / is to survive. That is why, from childhood, they begin to create their own survival system. Moreover, this system is always strictly individual, this is due to the fact that all have their own physical, psychological and intellectual characteristics.
When a boy gets into society, he needs to find out his capabilities, and this can only be done in comparison with others. His attitude to the concepts previously instilled in the family is radically changing. If the family said that fighting was bad, then in the yard it was sometimes necessary, etc. Accordingly, in order to get approval in society / in the yard / you need to change your rules, and it is also desirable to do something better than others. Over time, this process of competition becomes the leading one for the boys. They can compete in anything. This begins to manifest itself especially clearly in adolescence. Who will run faster, who will spit further, who will steal more apples from the neighbor's dacha. And the goal of any competition is victory. If the conditions and opportunities do not allow to achieve victory, then the boys change their type of activity, it did not work out in boxing, I will go to chess. It is here, in competition, that men begin to build their individual survival system.
If some obstacle appears on the way, then everyone, over time / mistakes happen to everyone /, determines the most optimal way to overcome it. Wooden fence, one can climb, it's dexterous. The second strong, why climb is easier to break. The third is not strong and not dexterous, but smart, knows that if, on that board over there, bend the nails, he will be able to crawl through. It is more convenient for the fourth to make a tunnel. And the fifth one says: "Guys, maybe you can throw me over." The sixth generally leaves to look for another way. In other words, everyone solves the problem, but only in their own way. The one who climbed will not bend the nails, the one who broke it will not dig a hole. Based on this, men begin to develop logic. If you do this, the result will be the same, if it is different, then the result will be completely different. It is necessary for men to learn to predict. This is what subsequently / street, army / allows men to survive. The prediction of the consequences, / preferably more detailed / is important when choosing in any situation, and men make it based on their own experience.
Oddly enough, the fact that all men are different allows them to be very good friends. We complement each other. In some situation, a friend turns to me for help and I, using my strong side / skills, skills / help him, in another case, when those qualities that I do not have are needed, he is me. There are no men with exactly the same developed qualities. When a man understands which areas of development are priority for him, and he succeeds in them, then he intensively pumps them, and the rest can either not notice at all, or superficially pay attention. Interestingly, the advice of one man will never work for another, because everyone has their own individual strategy for survival and life. And to put it back to normal will not work.
Live with joy!
Anton Chernykh.
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