2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Building relationships is always not easy, but this question is especially acute when it comes to age, or rather, about relationships that are created taking into account past experience.
There is a certain type of women who, according to them, strive to create a new family, but for some reason they do not succeed over and over again. As a rule, such women already have sufficient financial well-being, an established life, a certain social circle and are quite attractive in appearance. However, with all the indisputable merits, they remain without a partner.
Women of this type very often set a very high bar in their requirements for a man. Moreover, these requirements, very often, are based not on personal preferences and sincere desires, but on an understanding of how her choice will be perceived by the surrounding women and men, too. A man, in this situation, should be worthy not even for herself, but for her inner circle. Even if a man is wealthy, this is not the key factor. This, in my opinion, is the beginning of the internal conflict of such women.
When a man appears in a woman's life, this inevitably entails a variety of changes, which may not always coincide with her already established habits. A man carries something new, but this is what often scares a woman most of all. The fact is that giving up something is very problematic for women. And when it comes to the lifestyle and social circle, and about all that is worth leaving in the past, and not dragging with you into new relationships, then some women begin to play the game "I set a condition" (if you are so, then I can so and so, and if not, then it is not necessary at all). Further there may be variations, but as a rule, this does not end with anything good, a matter of time.
By and large, a relationship is about the ability to negotiate and make mutual concessions and refuse something.
And when once again the relationship ends before it has begun, the woman justifies herself and her behavior with anything. In fact, she justifies her fear. And the woman is afraid of the new, there she will have to change a lot, including herself.
It is not uncommon for women to insist that a man make a decision about the development of a relationship. (Well, you are a man!) At the same time, subsequently or immediately they start looking for a catch, since this is his decision, for them, in fact, does not fit. An internal conflict is developing. Realizing that she may have to give up some of her past achievements in relation to former men too (calls, casual meetings), a woman of this type makes the choice not to change anything. Even if she likes a man very much, in most cases a woman cannot give up her usual state of affairs. And the reason for this behavior is a banal fear of change.
A new relationship is always an unknown, it scares, but staying in place and convincing yourself that life is already beautiful, you can hardly count on real happiness. To know the taste of an apple, you must taste it.
Live with joy!
Anton Chernykh.
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