2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
THAT'S WHY
Being calculated on monotonous and stable caring for children, giving them the same amount of love and care every day, women want to receive the same and equal love and care for themselves, both from their children and from their husbands. Moreover, the need for this sharply increases in a woman in the middle of her monthly cycle, but men do not understand this.
But, the main trouble is that men who are genetically tuned to abrupt changes in activity - from fighting and chasing prey to passive rest and doing nothing, are usually unable to give out equal portions of affection and attention. They can be very gentle one day, and then be busy with other things for several days and not pay due attention to their wife.
Drawing an analogy between emotions and electricity, we can say this:
In general, having the same feelings for each other, a woman gives out love of a direct current, a man - an alternating one. And wives often suffer from this, as it seems to them, lack of attention. And not knowing the specifics of male psychology, they react incorrectly to this.
In particular, they begin to naively think that such "unstable and callous" behavior is characteristic of only one particular man - her husband. But all other men only think to carry a woman in their arms all their lives.
Hence, female infidelity is not uncommon in search of missing attention, for the sake of daily kisses, hugs, SMS messages, wishes of "good morning" and "good night". Women then realize that they made a big mistake, and all men are the same. But here's the trouble: a man who finds out about flirting or betrayal of his wife may no longer forgive.
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