How Not To Support A Man

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

The fact that a man sometimes needs support from a woman, the latter, of course, heard. Some of the fair sex consider such actions in relation to men unnecessary. Others, on the other hand, want their man to feel supported by them in situations when he really needs it. At the same time, lovely ladies sometimes forget that for them and for a man, this participation can be completely different both in content and in form, and in perception too.

Women tend to associate support with pity, because in difficult situations they themselves need such manifestations. They want someone to listen to them, stroke them and feel sorry for them. For a woman, this is quite natural, she can even cry in response to such actions, thereby releasing her emotions. For a man, this option is hardly suitable, a man may become weaker out of pity, but none of us wants this. Most often they pity the one who is weak, understanding this makes pity for a man an unsuitable way of support. In addition, more often than not, a man does not know how to react to such manifestations as a woman, and, consequently, accept them.

Another option, it is usually used by active and active women, sincerely hoping that in this way they can help. These are all sorts of tips and tricks. By such actions, a woman shows that she knows better what to do (advice from her friends sometimes helps women). At the same time, it is not so important what problem we are talking about, about business or about a misunderstanding in relations with parents. It is not uncommon for such "support" to resemble the work of a coach and a client. A man can, of course, accept these advice, but for him they will either be alien, or even more undermine his self-esteem and self-esteem. Often, with this, a man may not feel relief and gratitude to a woman, but irritation and even greater uncertainty in his abilities.

Some ladies can in such cases stand in the position of a loving mother or even a grandmother. Then participation and support can be reduced to the fact that the woman will try to solve the problems of the man herself. Or, as an option, he begins to criticize the man, pointing out to him the mistakes that led to this state of affairs. The man himself perfectly understands, in such cases, what he was wrong about. He does not need a woman to decide something for him (if this is not an infantile male representative). In negative situations, it is important for a man how a woman assesses his prospects.

One of the best ways for a man to support a man in a difficult situation for him, on the part of a woman, will be to show faith in him, confidence that he will cope. Moreover, it is better to broadcast this to a woman, as with the help of speech it is still not verbal. In other words, if you want to support a man, show that you believe in him in his strength. You can try to tell a man phrases like: "I am sure that you are smart, strong and will definitely cope." The frequency of repetition of such statements can be any, but the more a man hears such a thing from a woman, the more his faith in himself and the desire to act is restored. In addition, it is important for a man to feel that a woman believes in him on a non-verbal level, as each woman decides for herself how to do this.

Men appreciate the support of their women. They always remember and are grateful to women for this. A woman's faith in the strength of her man gives him the understanding that there is a man next to him who really cares about him. And this is very important for the development of relations.

Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.