2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
My new article about relationships is born on a good aggressive note. In the wake of a failed romance. How many patterns became disgusting to me, and some friends or relatives who restrict me and shut my mouth and say that I want a lot, and therefore I scare a man, it’s impossible, it’s my own fault, and how could everything be fine, too, to put it mildly, enrage.
I understand now that this is how I was brought up all my life: “do not stick your head out”, “know your place”, “you want a lot”, “not according to Senka a hat”, instead of “try, you will succeed”, “take yours”, “do, you're right . Already breathtaking from such courage. Why it is impossible to be next to a man brave, open, honest, to be located nearby comfortably, and not on one leg.
"Indiscreet", "scared the guy with her temperament" - but honest, why hide your real one.
"Is there a lot you want from a man asking him a couple of dates a week?" - not much, I have the right to want a couple of dates, one in two weeks is not enough for me. I want more and I have the right to ask him about it. I like this man !!! I want to build a relationship, and meeting every two weeks is a stub of a relationship.
“He has the right to be like that, and you have to persuade him, dance a dance, sing a song, etc. to arrange it, and wait, wait …. - do I want to wait, or dance, if in two months he himself has not planned a single date, has never danced. I saw the fire in his eyes, he likes me, but he is very restrained, saves, because he has children; there is no time, because children, friends, parents … I am by no means in the forefront. I don't want to dance and wait. And spend years practically alone. I want to breathe deeply, not through a tube.
"Capricious, impatient, she ruined everything herself" - I can add, still very angry, because I liked him.
The relationship is a failure, I must admit it, we have different interests and values. He is interested in his obligations, I am interested in relationships, he is interested in responsibility, I am interested in humanity, he is interested in the framework, and I am interested in spontaneity. And he is also a financial miser.
“A good man, this is such a rarity” is not uncommon, I just don’t know everyone. And if it's no joke, then the world is rich, it has everything you want, look - you will find!
"Filling a man with energy" is a bullshit, it is necessary to fill the emotionally unstable, immature ones. The rest are filled with energy themselves, they know what they want from a woman, or do not want.
What happens between us is mutual interest, mutual dances, mutual value. A relationship is something that matters to two, not one. And the use is also mutual. Yes, I want to be used, I want to be wanted, otherwise I do not understand why I am valuable.
If I had adjusted to this sweet man: I would have lived according to his schedule, meetings once every two weeks, most likely less often the rest of the time - melancholy, boredom, loneliness, tears in the pillow. Several cheap gifts. Once a year with him on vacation - seven days of bliss. But!!! I have a man, I'm not alone, I … why this pathos and deceit. I do not need to raise my self-esteem, I need a person for life, not for status, I do not want semitones or half measures. Unfortunately, the status in our society is like an order. I don't need orders.
"Wow, I swung!" - Yes, you went to ….
Now I am alone, snot, tears, resentment, everything is as it should be for parting, I will live this mismatch. It is a pity that you cannot immediately find out everything about a person, you fall in love and become attached, fascinated, admired, and then stop. It hurts like your head against the wall. I will live it. I will find my happiness.
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