2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Some women tend to think that their ideas about men and the methods of communicating with them, even if they are based solely on their own opinion, are the only true and justified. They believe that men are created only to fulfill their desires and provide them with a comfortable existence. At the same time, such ladies, in most cases, rather aggressively perceive information on this topic, if it does not correspond to their views. Everything would be fine, but often reality quite clearly shows such representatives of the fair sex that they are mistaken. However, oddly enough, such women often see in this only a confirmation of their opinion that men are stupid and ungrateful creatures, while they themselves are left alone with their own opinions and ideas, which are often false.
Such women consider offense to be one of the most effective and productive methods of influencing men. In all honesty, we can say that this method is used, at some point, by most women, the only difference is that some understand that it should not be used often, while others should not. For the sake of fairness, it should be noted that men, to a certain extent, really react to female grievances in accordance with their expectations.
But a time comes, and a man has a different reaction in response to a woman's resentment. The first option, the man stops doing anything at all, because he perceives such a woman's position as the only possible one and therefore, trying to avoid it, freezes. This also happens because often women combine resentment with accusation, and a man does not want to be guilty, and he chooses the option of doing nothing. Another option is when a man begins to perceive female grievances as a way of manipulation. And naturally he does not like it and quickly gets bored, because he realizes that this is just a way to get something out of him. Then, it only irritates him, and in extreme cases, aggression. The latter most often occurs when a woman, deliberately, throws him out of balance.
Frequent, or even worse, constant use of resentment as an instrument of communication, often leads to the fact that, unconsciously, a woman has a model of behavior that can be conventionally called “constantly unhappy”. This very strongly affects the character, and the appearance of a woman. Men are very reluctant to communicate with such a woman, therefore they often avoid it altogether, under a variety of pretexts. (from: “I went to the garage,” to: “We'd better break up”) Resentment, as a tool to achieve our goals, can hardly be considered effective or durable. Since with its frequent use, in this capacity, it is likely to provide a response, especially in a man. This also happens because emotionally mature and adult men often regard resentment as something not entirely honest, but that's another story.
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