Change Partners Like Gloves?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Change partners like gloves?

There is a bewitching charm in the running of a squirrel on a spinning wheel. The main thing is not to lose yourself, running away from your own fears and public introjects.

Kira married her beloved man and dreamed of a happy family. But life together did not work out and the couple soon divorced.

Two months later, a new man appears on the horizon, with whom Kira lives in a civil marriage. It soon becomes clear that the second relationship is doomed.

But the heroine does not analyze why the relationship is falling apart.

There is no time to figure this out - efforts and time are absorbed by work and everyday life.

Maybe a young woman chooses partners who are not suitable.

Perhaps the task of this life period of Kira is to get an education or start her own business, and not to arrange her personal life.

But Kira is under pressure from public opinion, which says: "A normal woman is married."

The girl is driven forward by the horror of uncertainty, loneliness and ticking time. While young and attractive, our bird flies into the next embrace.

But when another man appears, the situation will worsen and depression will loom ahead. Why?

After the first divorce, only 2 months passed and a new chosen one appeared. And the term of residence of the loss is 1 year. Despite the fact that the marriage has broken up, there is a loss. After all, a woman has lost love and affection, hope and dreams.

And it takes time to heal the wounds and recover. And Kira allotted 2 months for the most complex mental processes. Rather, just 2 months have passed.

However, the psyche has its own laws and pace. The psyche is slower than high-speed consciousness. And for her, 2 months is the beginning of the living of the loss.

And the heroine confidently dives into the second relationship. The process of mourning is superimposed on the process of acquaintance and grinding in with another partner. But energy - not dimensionless and chooses actual needs - is directed towards establishing contact with a new chosen one.

And unlived feelings from past relationships: pain, sadness, disappointment, anger - are suppressed and add up to an emotional container until better times.

The girl behaves as if only the external world exists. Maybe the young woman is not aware of the existence of an inner world. Various processes take place inside Kira and outside, which are not consistent with each other.

Soon Kira breaks up with her second partner. The woman expected that the second marriage would be more successful than the first. Therefore, he experiences a collapse of hope, disappointment, despair, bewilderment and shock.

After the breakup of the first relationship, only 8 months have passed.

There is chaos in the soul - complex feelings that relate to various losses.

It is important for the body to stop and digest this "mess" of feelings, which are a heavy burden settled in the psyche. We need to put things in order in the inner world.

Otherwise, the overflowing emotional container will break through in the form of affect, psychosomatics or neurosis.

What do you think?