2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Good afternoon dear friends!
If we constantly face in our life the fact that potential partners (these are those with whom we could build relationships, a family) we do not like all the time, all the time they have some flaws, all the time they do not suit us, then so, then this, it is worth pondering why this is happening.
What opinions and ideas do you have on this matter? Please share.
For my part, I will now share with you my following considerations.
Perhaps, in search of our person, we focus too much on some “things”, and not on our emotional response to the person.
Let me explain what I mean.
By emotional response, I mean the following: how comfortable we are with a person, how interesting it is to communicate with him, how much we like his smells, how much we want to be with him, whether there is pleasure from this, whether we feel sexual attraction to him, and so on. Here I also ask you to help me expand and supplement this list! I'm looking forward to!
And by "things" I mean this: is a person rich, who are his parents, what kind of education he has, where does he work, how he dresses, where he goes to rest, what hobbies he has, how old he is, is he handsome, does he have a car whether he is involved in sports, what is his position in society, and the like. I also ask you to expand and supplement the list!
Do you feel the difference between the first and second criteria?
Of course, to some extent it is important to pay attention to the “things” from the second block. But if they begin to dominate, if only we are guided by them in choosing a partner, then there is a very high chance that we will never choose anyone like that.
It turns out such a constant search for a unicorn in a fairy forest! A unicorn, of course, is a beautiful creation, but it has nothing to do with reality … And we have no fairy-tale forests either!
See you in the comments!
And good luck finding your man!
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